Beauty Not Beast

Make Love Not Warpaint

March 3rd, 2010

As I’m sure everyone knows I am an official make-up junkie.

I love the stuff and wear several products every day – including liquid liner and a good few coats of mascara.

I’m accutely aware however that there are many lovely brides out there who actually don’t wear a lot of make-up, pursue the ultimate natural “look” and the thought of having to potentially pile on the slap just because it’s their wedding day fills them with dread.

Believe me I’ve met a few – the poor pets have literally melted under the make-up artist/sales consultant “You should wear this, this and this!!!!” spell – always with regret and on one occasion a complete refusal to admire her W-day photo’s so “overdone” was her maquillage.

Well we don’t ever want you to feel like that lovelies….

There is no need to change ANYTHING about your look for the Big Day if you don’t want to.

So for all you au natural ladies out there RMW have selected a range of ( what we consider) the perfect “Are they/aren’t they?” cosmetics that will just make you a slightly glossier version of your already gorgeous self.

Naked Ambition

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Brows: As everyone knows they frame the face and a neat and tidy groomed pair can make you look instantly polished. MAC Brow Set is nothing short of genius, a tinted gel that fills in the patchy gaps and makes wayward strays stay put. Comes in clear and shades for blondes and brunettes.

Skin: Love the skin you’re in? Don’t feel the need to wear foundation but fancy a bit of flawless? Then Laura Mercier tinted Moisturiser is for you. Sheer, undetectable and comes in a vast array of face friendly shades. This product wins prestigious beauty awards left right and centre ( it’s that great) and is now available in a rich version for dry complexions and oil free for “say no to shine” types.

Cover: Aptly named “Nude” this new concealer from Christian Dior is sublime. Dot onto dark shadows and pat in gently for seamless coverage and/or around the sides of the nose to mask redness. I also used this on my somewhat tomato-like wind chapped cheeks last week and you couldn’t tell I had anything on at all.

Brilliant.

Get Your Glow On

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Finish: I have tried a zillion million loose powders ( ok slight exaggeration but a fair few)…and I ALWAYS go back to this Chanel beauty. I wear it on its own in the summer with concealer – It does somehow make your skin more even without the need for foundation. I use shade 50 “Peche” as it gives a “Lit from within” glow.

Oh and a tub lasts FOREVER.

Lips: I can’t recommend one gloss – that would be ridiculous as there are so many great shades out there. Am a big fan of the NARS lip gloss pots though and “Chelsea Girls” is a particularly sexy pout enhancing hue.

And its not too goopy.

Cheek: A recent discovery and another gem from Madam Mercier, cream blush in “Oleander” – the perfect suits all “just went for a brisk walk in the park” blush. Blends like a dream and has pretty good staying powder for a cream formulation.

So then folks…. what natural products float your make-up boat – sticking to your much loved favourites for W-day or trying something new?

I did a bit of both to be truthful, invested in a few new pretty pieces but didn’t stray too much from looking like “me”.

Big Naked Love

Charlotte xxx

Buff that Backside

February 22nd, 2010

While Charlotte is the undisputed makeup guru around here ;) I happen to have a few tricks up my sleeve for some bridal beauty buffing pre-wedding day.

Often the first thing brides think of in terms of a beauty regime is skincare, by which I mean facials, a good cleansing regime and moisturisers that perfect all your hard work. But with gowns getting ever more inventive and an often sun soaked honeymoon hot on the big day’s heels, what of the body beautiful?

There are pleanty of beauty treatments designed to tighten, tone and make your skin shine but with so many different aspects of planning to stretch the budget, this is one area you can save a few pennies and still get skin sexy with some home skin priming for perfection.

I Aint no Scrubber!

I’ve long been a devotee of the body scrub and it’s ability to turn the roughest backside into silky smooth skin. Not all scrubs are equal however so here are my personal favourite which I guarantee will slough off any undesirable bumps and leave you with a bottom as smooth as a babys.

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First up, my absolute favourite Sanctuary Salt Scrub. In a gloopy oil based liquid this salt scrub smells absolutely heavenly and is rough enough to smooth your skin to perfection, yet the oil base stays on the skin meaning you can skip on moisturiser and skip out of the door in no time! Probably not the best for oily skin, it’s never-the-less a life saver for dry winter damaged hides.

Like your skincare natural? Then it doesn’t get better than this… Buffy the Backside Slayer from Lush. Nothing to do with vampires, this scrub bar was inspired by the beautiful Brazilian women who rub a mixture of sand and suntan oil on their bodies to improve circulation and reduce cellulite. Mixed with cocoa and shea butters (to soften and moisturize), ground rice, almonds and aduki beans (to exfoliate you to velvety perfection,) voila, Buffy was created! This is another super moisturiser too, perfect for dry skin.

Fancy a scent-sational treat? Origins Incredible Spreadable Ginger scrub has a fabulous Ginger boost to revitalise your senses yet with warming properties to cosset you as we move from Winter into Spring and you get ready to bare! Once again, a heavy duty scrub with good sized rough bits, a handful of this stuff will smooth your bumpy bits away and make you smile.

In your Arms

Nearly every woman I have ever spoken to gets those annoying little bumps on the top of their arms and I’m no exception. With a dose of sun the only sure fire way I knew of to get rid of them, but being sun safe here at Rock My Wedding that was no longer an option and I had to find a solution fast before Wedding day! Correctly named hyperkeratosis pilaris the condition improves with age and can be treated by your doctor with salicylic acid preparations. I preferred to go down the ‘extra time in the bathroom’ route and discovered a gem…

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Exfoliating Gloves from Boots cost around £2-4 and used daily with your usual shower gel may just be the most effective thing I have ever stumbled upon to make your upper arms bump free again. The key here is being religious about it and using the glove EVERY day as it is a build up of keratin that causes the ‘plugs’ which must be kept at bay!

With all this buffing you’ll need to keep on top of your skins moisture levels and Lush Dream Cream is my top pick to do just that. With a distinctive smell of the ‘acquired taste’ variety, (Although I’m a complete addict now!) this body cream was developed to superbly moisturise and calm troubled skin. With a calming oat meal base it’s packed with every soothing plant the geniuses at Lush could find: tea tree, lavender and chamomile, moisturizing olive oil and loads more. It’s the only cream I have found that leaves my skin as soft at the end of the day as when I first applied it that morning.

And last of all, if you are a fan of layering your fragrance I’m also a convert to theGinger Souffle also by Origins. This luxurious cream really melts in and leaves your skin smelling all gingery, warm and zingy :)

Ahhhh, breath a sigh of relaxed relief. Lock yourself in the bathroom for some quality time, soak away the day, scrub yourself silly, then smooth things over and sleep like a baby.

You can thank me later :)

Yours Truly,

Rebecca
xoxo

Get Bond Girl Sexy

February 13th, 2010

I’m not sure about you guys but I was so focused on my wedding in the months leading up to the Big Day that my “minimoon” wardrobe took a total back seat. Consequently I then spent the last few weeks of the run up (when I should of been relaxing and being pampered) doing last minute panic shopping and stressing that I had spent so much time worrying how I was going to look hot for one day…..that I had failed to invest in looking hot for the whole of the following week.

Dramarama.

I wanted to look bride sexy on W-day – But I wanted to look equally as bond girl beach sexy too darn it.

And where do you go to get the most figure flattering and diverse range of swimwear?

Why Figleaves of course……

And my favourite brand for bikini perfection?

Seafolly.

Because it rocks.

Period.

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The Mandalay Bikini with a bust enhancing halter top and leg lengthening hipster string tie briefs.

The Stardust Bikini with padded twist bandeau for minimal tan lines and a strip of glittery silver for oh-so-glamorous types.

The Goddess bikini….Um with a name like do I need to actually say anything? Ok one thing -Ursula Andress eat your heart out Pet.

All available from Seafolly at Figleaves.

And if you don’t fancy bearing your midriff but still want to retain pool side cool then look no further than a figure flattering, sophisticated and striking one piece in black:

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The Bora Bora halter neck swimsuit with moulded foam cups ( super shape enhancing) and a good rear coverage, from O Beach.

The Goddess swimsuit by Seafolly. Much like the bikini in its ultimate gorgeousness only with very fashion forward Asymetric strap detail.

The Hollywood by Vitamin A, divine on smaller chested ladies and comes with removable pads and tummy flattening ruching.

All available at www.figleaves.com as before.

Please let us know what you have in mind for your Sex Bomb just-turned-wife self….

Big Bond Girl Bikini Love

Charlotte xxx

Get Pin-Up Sexy!

February 10th, 2010

So, as you all know by now, Get Sexy week is all about making your fine self look even finer. And those ladies from the Fifties certainly knew a thing or two about getting themselves sexy. Fortunately for you, we have ourselves a lady who knows exactly how to gussy up and paint on that pout so how about giving Valentines Day a great big sassy red lip this year and trying this one out? Over to you Jenny!

Jenny gets Pin-up Sexy…

I thought it was about time I tried my hand at a make up tutorial for you all! The trend for 50’s weddings still runs strong and I regularly get asked for advice and tips on how to do Dita Von Teese/Marilyn Monroe type styles.

So, before we start, a few things to remember! This style of make up was based around war time, so women had very little money to buy luxuries like foundation and blusher. This look is all about the eye liner and the lips!

The Kit

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1). Benefit eyeshadow ‘low profile’

2). Mac eyeshadow ‘rite of spring’

3). Fero eyeshadow ‘caramel’

4). Mac eyeshadow ‘folie’

5). Mac gel eyeliner in black

6). Clinique High Definition mascara in black

7). Girls aloud false lashes ‘Sarah’

8). Mac blusher ‘well dressed’

9). Loreal Touch Magique concealer

10). Rimmel Exaggerate lip liner ‘Red Diva’

11). Rimmel lasting finish lipstick ‘Bordeaux’

12). Mac Studio Fix powder in NC 25

The Eyes have it!

First, apply your base, and concealer. This only needs to be a very light dusting, as the focus is on the liner and lips

1. With a large brush apply the cream eyeshadow over your whole lid, right up to underneath the brow, then apply a shimmery/pearlescant colour to the lid, up to the socket line.

2. In the socket line with a small soft brush apply a caramel colour

3. Define the outer corners and outer socket of your eye with a darker brown shadow

4. Using a large blending brush, sweep the brush over your whole eye focusing on the socket and blending the colours evenly

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5. Apply liquid/gel liner starting from the inner edge outwards. There’s a great tutorial on the Mac website for how to apply liquid/gel eyeliner

6. Apply mascara, making sure to get right into the root – maybe apply some black eyeliner to the inner upper lid to ensure there are no ‘bare’ sections

7. Eyebrows should be defined, and arched. Use an angled brush and some eyeshadow to fill in any gaps and give them the classic shape of the 50’s

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8. To the apples of the cheeks, apply a light dusting of pink/peach coloured blusher. This only needs to be very lightly applied.

9. Apply your lashes – they should sit perfectly over the top of your liner and therefore blend nicely. If the seam shows up too much, use your angled brush and apply eyeliner over the top.

Get Lippy!

Different people have different tricks, I however use a bit of liquid foundation/concealer to apply to the lip as a primer.

Apply your red liner, it’s important to use a liner to prevent the lipstick from bleeding into the lines around your mouth. Remember to make quite a round looking pout line, the lips of the 50’s were extremely pouty and round – it wasn’t until the 80’s where it was fashionable for the cupids bow became more angular.

Apply your lipstick, using either a lipstick brush, or by applying it directly from the stick. Whichever works best for you – using a brush gives you better coverage and less room for errors! Remember to blot ladies….

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Et Voila! My take on 50’s make up;
It’s a really easy and quick look to produce, and anyone can do it with practice.

Well, I know I won’t be the only one trying this at home! Let us know how you get on dear readers!

Yours Truly,

Contra and the one and only Jenny, of ‘What Jenny Did’ fame!
xoxo

Extreme Rock n Roll HOTNESS

February 10th, 2010

Now if you have not already seen this to-die-for it’s so darn sexy vintage boudoir shoot with Kat Williams from Rock n Roll Bride then you are in for a real treat.

Photographed by the extraordinarily talented Julia Boggio these images are some of the most unique, kitsch and down right super cool I have ever seen.

Seriously.

Be prepared.

For EXTREME rock n roll hotness……

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How much do you love?

How much do you want one?

We so blo*dy do!!!

For the rest of the images go take a look at Kat’s blog here and to go book your sexy session and for further details just visit www.juliaboggiostudios.com and select “Vintage Boudoir”

Go on, you know you want to.

Big Boudoir Love

Charlotte xxx

P.s Come back later to find out how you can recreate the perfect 50’s pin up make-up……

Scents and Sensibility

February 8th, 2010

I’m guessing that many of you lovely ladies have more of a clue than I did about “wedding perfume”…..

Being that I had NO CLUE that is….. as in erm ” what the hell is a wedding perfume?!”

Well if you do know and you have chosen something utterly fabulous then we would love to know what it is. If not however and you are wondering what on earth I am blabbering on about then let me explain….

Apparently as well as all your other specific W-day goodies ( make-up, shoes, jewellery, dress etc) you can also invest in a specific Big Day fragrance. A kind of waft down the ailse in a scented cloud of “I am about to be a Mrs/wife/general sex bomb” type of scent that will always remind you of that day. And how amazing/gorgeous/totally in love you felt.

If you quite like the idea and are stuck where to start then hopefully Rock My Wedding can be of assistance with a selection of some of the sexiest and most delicious scents available from statement classics to “just come onto the market” to total and utter knock-your-socks off they are so darn foxy varieties…..

New Kids On The Block

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1) Cleopatra is the newest addition to the delectable Tocca range currently available at Space NK and is infused with grapefruit, cucumber and soft florals. It’s fresh, clean and oh-so-pretty and is currently taking pride of place on my own dressing table since purchasing last month.

2) Wedding Perfume = Madam Wang right? and you can’t go wrong with the limited edition Glam Princess which is a sparking, vivacious and glamorous little number made up of top notes of guava, pear and crushed red berries and a heart of honey, orange blossom and vanilla. You will smell ( literally) good enough to eat.

3) If it’s feminine AND fruity you are after then perhaps make a bee line for Lola the new fragrance from Marc Jacobs complete with pink peppercorn, pear d’anjou, ruby red grapefruit, peony, rose and creamy musk.

Oldies But Goodies

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1) Calvin Klein’s Euphoria is by far the most “asked after” scent I have ever worn and although I love to wear different varieties of perfume this still remains a firm favourite. With top notes of pomegranate, persimmon and lush green accord, middle notes of black orchid and lotus blossom and base notes of amber and mahogany woods it just is……perfection.

2) Not only one of the most gorgeous bottles ever invented but Lolita Lempicka still remains one of the most gorgeous and girly fragrances available and there doesn’t seem to be anything that comes remotely close to its edible uniqueness. Includes notes of liquorice, praline and vanilla to tickle your senses as well as your fancy.

3) Alien by Thierry Mulger is as mysterious as it is seductive and combines notes of transparent white amber, cashmeran and sambac jasmine especially selected from India. Reminds me of cosy winter nights by the fire and generally getting up to no good.

Sex In A Bottle

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1) Not for the faint hearted Flower Bomb from Viktor and Rolf is a full-bodied floral explosion. Literally. With top notes of tea and bergamot, middle notes of orchid, freesia, and rose, and a base note of patchouli.

2) Lady Vengence by Juliette Has A Gun was my own Big Day choice and was described by my husband as “heaven in a bottle”….with wild rose, patchouli and golden vanilla it is strong, vibrant and ever-so-sexy.

3) This is a very recent discovery actually but I have smelt Stella by Stella Mccartney on passers by more than a dozen times and always thought to myself “My what a lovely scent” but never had the courage to stop them and ask. Then my ultra glamorous and incredibly excellent-taste-in-everything friend Victoria stepped through my front door on Friday smelling particularly A.mazing. And what was she wearing? Yup you guessed it – Stella.

Sexiness in a God darn bottle.

I have it firmly planted on the Valentines day wish list.

With regards to making your fragrance go the distance I would definitely recommend investing in the eau de parfum version rather than eau de toilette if available. Also if there is a shower gel, bath essence or body lotion in the range maybe consider these as a treat to your soon-to-be-married self too, I find if I layer I am just as fragrant at 11pm as I was at 7am that morning.

Do let us know what perfume you have in mind for W-day or if any of these RMW picks are also favourites of yours.

Big Sexy Scented Love

Charlotte xxx