
Believe me I know from experience that during wedding planning mania it can be so so easy for you and your future husband to get swept away by the sheer madness of it all.
The result can be anything from a few stress related disagreements to almost completely forgetting what the point of it all is in the first place.
Your Big Day should be one of the best days of your life.
And not because you will get to wear the most gorgeous dress you have ever seen or because everything works out “as planned”.
Oh no.
It will be one of the best days of your life because you and your fiance are commiting to spending the rest of your lives together, through bad times, through the good times, in sickness and in health.
Your Wedding will be one of the most sweetest and beautiful memories you ever experience together but it is only one of the millions of special memories you will share throughout the years.
At the end of this month Mr O’Shea and I will have been married for 6 months and let me tell you – they have so far been the best 6 months of my life.
Just today Mr O got up at 5.30am to take me to the airport as he didn’t want me to get a taxi on my own, he then picked me up again at 7.00pm in the pouring rain and because I was so exhausted and starving hungry from a 14 hour day in Belfast went to the local fish and chip shop and proceeded to make me a chip butty…..
You can’t get better than that folks.
I love my husband and I love being his wife.
Our wedding was amazing don’t get me wrong and no matter how hard you try there will always be a small feeling of deflation after the event as you have dedicated so much time and energy to one thing.
BUT it’s what comes AFTER the Big Day that counts.
Remember what it’s all about.

Lots of the above
Mrs O’Shea xxx

























