Surfers Paradise

Surfers Paradise.

August 14th, 2010

It’s Saturday and it’s surfing time lovelies, some bits and pieces of pretty from around the web to keep you entertained over the weekend.

Don’t forget to drop us an email of anything you think the RMW community might want to take a peak at ;-)

Just in case you lovelies had tried and failed, Denote’s customer contact form is now working so please head on over if you fancy some paper pretty

Are you a photography geek like The RMW Team? Well then, you need to go take a look at what is in Laura Lawson’s bag. There’s a lot of lens lovely in there that’s for sure.

If you like to sit down with a cup of tea and a biscuit to enjoy surfers paradise maybe next time you could indulge in a whole mug full of “Big Love” … Emma Bridgewater actually made this for us didn’t she?!

Working to a small budget but want to make a BIG impact? Fill bowls with delicious cherries or vibrant oranges to add colour, cool and kitsch. And if you don’t believe me you’ve really gotta check out this beautiful wedding. See!

I know it’s still technically summer, and I know that at heart I’m generally a high street kinda girl…. but that doesn’t stop me from desiring this Marc Jacobs jumper. It looks so cosy yet so very VERY chic

Now I may be thinking of how much I’d love the jumper but Madam Rebecca has gone out and actually bought this Whistles leather jacket. Lush.

And while we are on the subject of gorgeous garments you have GOT to go take a look at this Australian Art Deco inspired affair. The brides gown AND the bridesmaids dresses are unbelievably beautiful

There is no denying that the RMW team are total Apple geeks. Imagine our delight then when we discovered that net-a-porter magazine have an app for the super cool iPad. Yup that’s right, the leaders of on-line fashion are now at your iPad fingertips people. Hoo-bloomin-rah.

Not usually one to go completely nuts over W-day cake or indeed suggest you tie everything in with a “colour scheme” but this pink number may have just turned my thinking 180 degrees. Can you imagine it in Rock My Wedding blue?! A.mazing.

If You read my post “The Prettiest Maids” then you will understand why this Big Day made my week. I don’t think you need any further confirmation that maids + different coloured dresses = total and utter perfection. Oh and the ice-cream dream of a frock is pretty spectacular too.

Loved our head-piece post this week? still not found exactly the right thing? well then you may want to check out www.cherishedvintage.co.uk by Evangeline Rose Bridal. Featuring beautiful embellished hairbands, combs and hairpins made from genuine vintage costume jewellery and reworked into one-off accessories, Cherished’s designs appeal to brides seeking elegant individuality for their special day. Using brooches, buckles, buttons and jewellery dating from the 1900s to 1970s and sourced from around the world, each piece is unique and comes with its very own pedigree detailing its history. Fancy Schmancy.

Did you love the film “The NoteBook”? Well I did. And I was knocked sideways with this engagement shoot that was inspired by the movie. Divine.

Last but not least I’ll leave you with this, a piece of french fancy from the Cherry Blossom Girl. The perfect pink Miu Miu bag and the sweetest dress and shoes courtesy of Urban Outfitters. J’adore.

Have a fabulous weekend you gorgeous lot ;-)

Hope you all surround yourself with fine wines, fabulous friends and lots of laughter…..

Big Marc Jacobs Love

Charlotte xxx

An Eat Drink Chic Wedding…

July 30th, 2010

I’ve been super excited about this post for a while.

One of my favourite blogs is the brilliant Eat Drink Chic by the very talented Amy Moss. Amy is a graphic design turned style blogger who makes the best free downloadables and printables which she very kindly shares on her blog. It still has me checking on a regular basis for cool projects and I’m sure we will be featuring her work regularly in DIY Devotee.

I might have a bit of a girl crush on Amy. Not only does she have a super pretty blog with the most stylish ideas and shares, she also had what I reckon is close to my perfect wedding. What I would do if I had to go and do it all again… wait for it, Amy has a surprise wedding!

Amy has very kindly given me permission to blog about her wedding using excerpts from her own wedding blog posts, for which I am eternally grateful. Thank you so much Amy and I hope you all enjoy the eye candy and the sentiment.

An Engagement Party to Remember

On Sunday March 28 at 2pm, our guests, believing they were about to attend an engagement party, began arriving at our beautiful backyard picnic. One hour into the proceedings we shocked them with a surprise wedding ceremony!

The looks of astonishment and delight on the faces of our guests were pure gold. After 10 years of friendship, in which the last 4 years we were an inseparable couple, Mark and I finally got married!

Family Vintage

The Wedding appeals to me on so many levels… Amy totally knocked the styling out of the park with so many of her own cute DIY touches from the florals to the paper goods to the casual style and I love the relaxed vibe being carried right through from the back yard setting to the floral short wedding dress Amy wore – despite it’s unusual appearance it really was a bona fide wedding gown…

I wore my mother’s 30 year old floral wedding dress accompanied by an Alannah Hill floral hairpiece and vintage-style pearl white shoes each topped with a cute little rosette.

Setting the Scene for a wedding…

Mark and I stood under a pretty cream-coloured royal marquee set up at the front of the event, greeting our guests as they arrived.

Because we hosted it in the backyard of my husband’s parents place, it created a much more personal and intimate atmosphere and allowed us a few days to set up so that we had time to refine the details. Upon arriving, a lot of our guests may have thought that there was quite a lot of effort put into what was essentially just supposed to be an ‘engagement’ party.

A series of pop-up pagoda marquees were set up around the edge of one half of a tennis court. In the middle were four large umbrellas. This added an open, outdoor feel while still protecting us from the intermittent drizzle that occurred throughout the day.

At 3pm, Mark grabbed everyone’s attention and begins his speech, thanking everybody for coming and relating stories about how we met and how we were friends for many years before we eventually got our acts together and became a couple. At the conclusion of his speech, he casually lets it slip that we are going to be honouring our commitment to each other in the form of a civil wedding ceremony here today before all our guests.

The collective gasp, shocked and delighted faces, raised arms and exclamations such as “You sly dog!” were pure gold! I wish I could live in that moment forever! We spontaneously chose a spot amongst our guests to conduct a relaxed and unrehearsed ceremony. Our celebrant Deborah Cannon did a fantastic job especially dealing with our tendency to erupt in silliness!

A Wedding Picnic

I chose ’simple’, ‘rustic’, ‘recycled’, ‘vintage’ and ‘casual’ as the key themes of our wedding ‘picnic’. Wanting to capture a fresh, spring feel I set bright warm reds, oranges, pinks and yellows ablaze against a rustic landscape of wooden furniture, vintage crates, wine barrels, an odd assortment of collected jars and and bottles and bamboo plates and cutlery. Guests were advised a dress code of ’smart casual’ to maintain the relaxed and understated tone of the event.


Lemonade Love

The ‘homemade lemonade with elderflower water’ by our caterers was simply delicious and, in true recycled fashion, provided in jam jars.

Manila tags tied to the top of each jar allowed guests to write their names and re-use their jar throughout the afternoon. These were topped off with pinky red and white vintage-style paper straws which I bought online. The lemonade sat in glass jugs atop wine barrels as part of ’self service’ stations set up at various points throughout the event space.

Retro Writing

Our guestbook were Cavallini and Co. postcards from Zetta Florence depicting various flowers and vegetables. Guests would write us a little message on the back and leave them in this vintage-style wooden luggage.

Other props included Chinese Lanterns, a Faux vintage typewriter, Wooden Pencils from Oxfam, cute little stools to mix up the seating and Vintage Crates.

Festival Florals

Flowers were also casually placed in the vast array of jars and bottles of varying shapes and sizes and arranged haphazardly across picnic benches. Gerberas, roses, strawberry fields, gloriosa, tulips, billy buttons, green tricks, sunflowers and dahlias were among the flower types present.

A creative arrangement of cheerful and warm-toned flowers in hanging glass bottles floated magically above the buffet and was the chief focal point of the event.

Flowers were also casually placed in the vast array of jars and bottles of varying shapes and sizes and arranged haphazardly across picnic benches. Gerberas, roses, strawberry fields, gloriosa, tulips, billy buttons, green tricks, sunflowers and dahlias were among the flower types present.

Flower credits go to Melanie from Cecilia Fox. Her stunning hanging bottles stole the show. They were gorgeous! She also was a great help with all the other flower arrangements throughout the whole space. The vast majority of bottles scattered throughout the event were hired from Georgeous but I also added a few from my own collection.

The Photographer

Credit must go to Jonathan Ong to amazing photographer who took all the shots featured here and was fantastic at getting these images to me. I absolutely love his style and Amy has great things to say about him…

Luckily, on Polka Dot Bride I discovered Jonathan Ong. With a keen eye for composition and colour and a passion for detail, Jonathan and I spoke the same language and therefore worked really well together. I think it’s so important to be able to capture not only the results of all the hard work that went out into creating a beautiful event but also to capture all those special and magical moments that make up the wedding experience. Jonathan did a brilliant job with both of these tasks.

Cheers Jon! Look forward to working with you again in the future!

I love it. So simple and so full of personality. A very EDC wedding!

Thank you so much Amy and Mark for allowing us to share your wedding day, and thank you to Jonathan Ong for providing his beautiful images.

Yours Truly,

Rebecca
xoxo

Surfers Paradise.

July 24th, 2010

As you gorgeous lot know Rebecca and I are still fairly new to this blogging lark. Sometimes we have these big ideas and they don’t quite come to fruition. Sometimes we actually create something and just don’t really get around to utilising the functionality. Surfers Paradise is a case in point. It my little ( often ditzy) blonde head it was always supposed to be a place where we could share amazing things from around the web – great links to super cool weddings and fabulous fashion to name but a few.

You see one of my favourite blog posts on a Friday going YEARS back was the U.S.A blog Snippet and Ink’s Happy Weekend.

I genuinely looked forward to my Saturday/Sunday fix of loveliness and general eye candy.

The thing is, these type of web “round-up” posts are ten a penny on blogs now if I’m honest – everyone is at it – so you can’t help but think “what’s the point? How can I make RMW’s version different?”

And that’s why it’s kind of come to a grinding halt.

Until now that is.

You see I would really like some help please lovelies :)

Firstly I need a name for this post ( it will become a semi-regular if you like it) and ideas for the kind of stuff you would like to see.

I’m thinking weddings ( blo*dy obviously you would hope), amazing offers that we stumble across, general fancy schmancy from across the pond, what’s hot in the shops, bits of gossip, hot topics of general news/discussion and just general….. randomness?…… I guess.

In the main the content will be sourced by yours truly but Rebecca, Adam and Jenny will be sending me little bits and pieces that they think is worth a butchers too.

And of course we want YOURS – if you see something on the world wide web that would be worthwhile sharing with our readers then drop me an email at charlotte@rockmywedding.co.uk.

So folks, here is the kind of thing I am talking about:

Are you obsessed with Marilyn Monroe? Jenny and I certainly are and this is what we spent the whole of Friday looking at. She is the ultimate glamour icon.

Is your hair fine, flat and lack lustre? well not anymore people…..rub some volume into your barnet and you will emerge all bed-head and sexy like.

Can’t begin to tell you how much the pretty paper in this Seattle W-day makes me swoon. The Bride and Groom are particularly beautiful too.

Cool Britannia shoes. And they’re in the SALE!!!!

The prettiest flowers in various random glassware. I love.

This might be one of the coolest weddings I have ever seen in my life. I idolise Max Wagner. And you’ve just got to love this couples unique style. Don’t forget to check out the song list they chose for W-day, ’tis uber amazing.

Fan of Kate Moss? Fan of Mario Testino? Well then folks you had better head on over to the Saatchi Gallery to see the exhibition “Kate Who?”

Talking of Miss Mossy, the new limited edition collection is at Top Shop. Someone somewhere NEEDS to buy this dress. And did I mention I would adore to see a maid in navy frills?

You know we love the boys at Staggered and I really REALLY love this particularly gorgeous story……if you love it too then leave them a comment ;-)

Fancy joining us on these blue polka dot pages? Well we want you to be our next Jenny, really we do. So many great entries already but we want MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!

RMW Reader and blogger Fliss wants a Monique Lhuillier and so do we. Dreamy.

In fact – you can see a particularly beautiful Lhuillier gown in this little piece of Big Day perfection. I’m talking hair perfection……shoe perfection……..floral perfection……the list is endless. Go pay a visit people.

If you haven’t discovered it yet you really need to check out Rebecca and I’s favourite home store Grahame and Green. I am a huge fan of their bud vases.

Oh My Actual God. Ms Tiffany and Mr Apple get together – a match made in geek chic W-day heaven!!!!!

Been to have a nosey at Undress recently? Well if you like wedding dresses and you like them at discounted prices then you really need to go have a look see. There is a whole heap of designer bargains on offer.

So then……

What do you think?

A nice mix?

Not enough of something?

Too much of something else?

Do let me know :)

Big Surfy Love

Charlotte xxx

Tips for your Wedding Music – from Hi-Fi Weddings

June 21st, 2010

Music isn’t something we cover much on Rock My Wedding, but I know it’s a huge part of peoples planning… do you have a DJ or a live band or both, or save the cash and have a playlist on your iPod? With weddings being expensive and people wanting to cut costs, the iPod playlist is a great idea. Plus, getting back to my favourite obsession, it’s a wicked way of not only putting the personality into your day but making sure there’s no funky chicken dodgy DJ incidents come 2am.

Just after Pete and I’s Anniversary shoot, Lisa Devlin contacted us to say that Ashley from Hi-Fi weddings would like to feature it, which led me to get in contact with her and of course to check out her post on our Rockin’ Anniversary.

Here’s what Ashley has to say about Hi-Fi…

Hi-Fi Weddings was a brain-child for Ashley in late 2009, and she decided to go live with the idea in 2010. Back in 2006 (before the big blog buzz), when she was planning her own wedding, Ashley spent weeks and weeks compiling the perfect play-list for her wedding. Even today there is still no one place for brides and grooms to gather inspiration for their own wedding mix…until now! Hi-Fi Weddings provides artists and songs for the music lovers uniting on their special day! If you are one of those music lovers, we look forward to hearing from you – whether to submit your own wedding, ask a question, suggest a song, or just to say “hey!”

A bit more about Ashley…ok, myself. Third person is hard for me sometimes! Anyway, I live in Alabama with my wonderful husband, Andy. We are currently undergoing a 100+ year old house restoration, in which you can follow our progress! Andy and I share a passion for music and therefore, have opened a record store called Vertical House Records. And since we both are entrepreneurs, Andy is also a web and graphic designer…while I am fortunate enough to work with my friend Stephanie under White Rabbit Studios, a photography and design team. As if that wasn’t enough, we both are part of a local theatre troupe called Crash Boom Bang Theatre and a local film maker group called Dead Workers Party.

Fulfilling life, simply put.

So with all this extensive knowledge about music and weddings I thought we should ask Ashley for some Music choosing tips for those of you planning a playlist for your wedding.

1. Be sure you and your partner love the music. I know that seems obvious, but it would be horrible if your future spouse had no idea you hated polka and decided to “surprise” you with a few.

2. Generally, music tends to follow us through life (if you’re that type, of course). Make sure when choosing the music that they provoke a sense of the other person…or each other…or something about you two. Nothing like hearing a great tune only to find out it was some major song between a previous ex or something. blech!

3. Unless you’re working on a surprise mix for your loved one, it’s REALLY fun to work on them together. When making our own mix, I did most of the digging for music and Andy helped me piece the songs together to flow smoothly.

4. Check the lyrics carefully! While this doesn’t really pertain to dance floor hits (cause sometimes you need some bump and grind), listen carefully because you might be pleasantly surprised that the cheery sounded song is actually about burying a past lover six feet under ground.

5. Have fun with it! After all, this is the music that will carry you through your day. This is the music that will start your lives together. Twenty years from now you’ll have such a cherished memory to listen back on.

Ashley and Andy celebrated their fourth wedding anniversary just before my first and made a celebratory playlist which is a perfect place to start exploring Hi-Fi. Make sure you head over and check them out!

Yours Truly,

Rebecca
xoxo

You Are My Sunshine…..My Only Sunshine

May 1st, 2010

A little while back I received an email from the uber talented photographer Rupert Whitley, born and raised in England Rupert finally settled in the US in 1999 and has since shot weddings all over the world.

As a result of Rupert’s submission I spent a long time on his blog – his weddings are A.mazing. As of course is his ability to capture every significant moment and every vibrant hue.

Although there were a ton of Rock My Wedding potential candidates the particular affair that I have chosen to post today has one of the RMW teams current favourite colour scheme choices for W-day… yellow. Not to mention some to-die-for shoe candy.

So if as we move into May it’s still looking all a bit miserable and grey out of the window take a few minutes to look at your computer screen instead.

This is where the sunshine’s at people.

Matt and Melinda were married on a Friday in July 2009 at Belle Mer in Newport.

Enjoy.

A Peep Toe Bow

Ah…the shoes! They ended up being a gift from my husband. I wanted a pop of color, something that I could wear again and something fabulous! I had seen them while perusing the internet and fell in love. He hunted them down for me and surprised me with them. They were skyscraper peep toe 4’’ bright yellow Christian Louboutin with a bow.

Bridal Bling And Buttons

I bought my dress at Carmen Fashions, a bridal store in my hometown of Fall River, MA. My dress was a Jasmine Couture gown (Style #T135). I realized it was the one when my mom finally cried. We had gone to a bunch of different stores and tried on lots of dresses.

I was looking for something that was form-fitting and not too puffy. I didn’t want anything too heavy since we were getting married in July and it tends to be hot. It had just enough “bling” and I fell in love with all the buttons in the back of the gown.


A Sharp Black Suit

The Groomsmen wore Executive suits from Jos. We decided to buy instead of rent because every man needs a great black suit. We chipped in half the cost of each suit and gave each Groomsmen their lime green ties, pocket squares and cuff links to match the bridesmaid dresses.

Matt wore the same Executive suit from Jos that our Groomsman wore. To make him stand out a little bit he wore a bright yellow tie, pocket square and cuff links to match the yellow that was in my bridal bouquet.

Lemon And Lime

The Bridesmaids wore J.Crew The strapless, knee length dresses made of silk taffeta in a color called light citron. To describe the color it was like a lemony-lime color which fit our color scheme of bright yellow and lime green perfectly.

International Superstar

Our photographer was Rupert Whitely He was born and raised in England and now resides in the states. He’s done weddings all over the states and abroad including New Zealand, Australia, Mexico and the UK so I guess that makes him an international superstar photographer!

His photojournalistic style of capturing moments that aren’t posed was what we were looking for. We knew upon our initial consultation that he was the right person for the day and we were so excited to hear that he was open for our wedding day! He was great company to have- he was very calming, funny and had a great eye for capturing our day. Our bridal party can be a handful and he was great with everyone. Our guests also raved about him and continue to this day.


Floral Fancy

The amazing flowers were all done by Lisa and Allie at Floras by Alisa out of Barrington, RI. My bouquet was a white hydrangea base, with pops of bright yellow Posey Calla Lilies, White Cymbidium Orchids with yellow throats, bright green Hypericum berries and White Asiatic lilies. The stems were wrapped in a white satin ribbon with pearl pins up the back and my grandmother’s rosary beads were wrapped around the base of bouquet as well. I was very close to my grandmother and she had passed away some time ago.

The rosary was something she prayed with every day and was a great way to have her there with me for the day.

The altar arrangements were set up on high pedestals and were overflowing with a fluffy arrangement of white hydrangea, bright yellow roses, Belles of Ireland, and Kermit mums with some greenery at the base. There were lime green ribbons trailing and a white starfish submerged in the glass container.

The centerpieces were square lime green vases filled with hydrangea, Fuji mums, Belles of Ireland, Kermit mums, and accents of bright yellow Billy balls with variegated hosta leaf folded in half throughout arrangement.

Our dads wore a single white Calla Lily and the moms wore pin on corsages of calla lilies and stephanotis.

Unique Chic

Our wedding day took place on our 7 year anniversary of dating. It incorporated our love of the ocean and beach and was filled with bright colors like yellow, lime green and aqua. It was a lot of fun, bright and full of love. After dating for so long it was nice to have everyone who had been a big part of our relationship all in one place to help us celebrate.

My piece of advice to future brides is to not forget what the day is really about- family, friends and truly committing yourself to someone you love. The planning process can only be as stressful as you let it be. Talk to your future spouse and ask for input, the day should be about the two of you, take some time to just be engaged before you start the planning, ask for advice and help from your family and friends and just enjoy it- you only get to do it once in your life.

The First Dance

Our first dance was to “Stay with you” by John Legend. We were married on our 7 year anniversary of dating so we had been together for quite some time and with that had helped each other thru a lot of life’s heartaches-moving to different states, taking on new job opportunities, losing loved ones and friendships.

The chorus of the song really stood out to us:

Oh I’ll stay with you through the ups and the downs
Oh I’ll stay with you when no one else is around
And when the dark clouds arrive
I will stay by your side
I know we’ll be alright
I will stay with you
Everything will be fine
And I will stay with you
Through the end of time
I will stay with you

Have we brightened up your day?

Even just a little?

Hope so.

With a big thanks to Rupert Whitley and Matt and Melinda for sharing this amazing wedding.

Big Let The Sun Shine down on you gorgeous lot this bank holiday weekend Love

Charlotte xxx

Riding The Waves Of W-Day Web To…….

March 6th, 2010

Rhode Island in the U.S of A baby.

So here we are in Surfers Paradise, one of the shiny new sub-sections we added to the RMW menu bar launched in February.

“And what exactly is it??” I hear you gorgeous lot ask…

Well it’s a place we can share all the lovely stuff The RMW team find around the web from anywhere in the world – from Real Wedding eye candy to beautiful blogs we think are definitely worth a butchers.

And to begin our adventure I have a spectacular W-day affair all the way from Rhode Island in the U.S.A. I had admired the photographer Charlotte Jenks Lewis’s work for some time having seen her featured in various publications.

And you know what my philosophy is – if you don’t ask you certainly don’t get.

So we asked.

And we got.

A delicious piece of Big Day perfection with one of THE most prettiest colour palettes I have ever seen….We may be in the UK here girls but believe me – there are PLENTY of inspirational ideas to steal.

Becky and Ian were married at Astor’s Beechwood Mansion in Newport in an outdoor ceremony over looking the deep blue sea on a sunshine filled day…

Dreamy.

We love it. Hope you do to.

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See – told you I was crazy about these blue and grey/lilac shades of pretty, it’s like the RMW blog colour palette!

A few Bride/W-Day details for you all:

DRESS: Monique Lhuillier
MAIDS: Vera Wang
SHOES: Christian Louboutin

The beautiful bride Becky is a magazine editor and has worked for both Marie Claire and CosmoGirl, Becky took a lot of style inspiration from Marie Antoinette and even designed the cake herself to be in keeping with the reception room decor….

Fancy Schmancy.

With a BIG thank you to Charlotte Jenks Lewis for sharing these beautiful images.

Go check out Charlotte’s blog for tons more inspiration.

Big American Love

Charlotte xxx