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Hen Heaven…

August 24th, 2010

Right ladies… we have a treat for you. ;) It might seem that hen do season has passed somewhat, however, we know there are tons of you who may either be a little lastminute.com (like our very own Mrs O’Shea,) or like me, a bit of a planner extraordinaire, (Monica Styl-ee). So for those of you scouring for something to do we have some coming-up-soon ideas and for those of you whom your hen do is a distant dream as yet, there’s plenty of food for thought.

And you know what? I have neither a hen do to plan or go to, but I’d LOVE to go on a few of these days out. Following a flurry of weddings and hens this year, my friends and I have made a pact to plan some more fun, girls-only (or even bringing the hubbys/boyfriends/significant others along) weekends and there’s some super-cool ideas in amongst these. Bestival anyone?

Laura Jaansen from ooh.com got in touch with me a while ago now and has kindly put this article together, based on one she wrote for the site. Make sure you head on over and check out the site for other fun ideas and things to do!

Hand over to Ooh…

It’s that time of year again… time to think about the Hen party. Which could mean it’s time to steer clear of the local street on a Friday night for fear of being trampled by L plated, winged, cow girls and she-devils as they sip vodka jelly and stuff fivers in passing boxer shorts.

But what’s this? NO NEED to fear the high street anymore?

It’s true; there are plenty of ways to bond with fellow bridesmaids without resorting to re-creating a bad early 90’s Halloween party. Here are some top ideas:

Action Girls:

Discover Polo day and night in with the girls, Windsor, Surrey.

No experience necessary. Spend the day learning how to ride a polo pony, enjoy a two hour lesson taught by an Argentinean pro. Afterwards, relax and unwind over an Argentine BBQ and the chance to watch a pro polo game. It all costs £130 for a full day out including food and pick-up and drop off from London.


(and ladies, if you’ve ever met Argentinean men, you’ll understand why this is such a good idea for a hen party… ;) )

After a full day of fresh air, horse hair, and Argentinair, why not all get dropped back at a nominated flat, freshen up and enjoy a girl’s night in of gossip, DVD’s, homemade manicures, champagne and chocolate.

Crafty hen party:

Craft afternoon at What Katy Did with a night out on the town, South/ West London.

Get crafty with your girlfriends during an afternoon in a vintage lingerie shop What Katy Did. Get the gossip going and the toes tapping to some retro tunes while you try your hand at and creating your own fascinators or get a little more racy and make your own pasties (commonly known as a nipple tassels!)

Make a night of it in the big smoke later that evening. Why not enjoy a good old girls night out in Clapham, South London starting with drinks on the roof terrace and then dancing till 5am at The White House.

Or head out in Notting Hill for slinky cocktails at Beach Blanket Babylon and dancing at the famous Notting Hill Arts Club.

Foodie Heaven:

Fresh and Wild gourmet food weekend, Penzance, Cornwall.

Fresh and wild food and dramatic countryside – this Gourmet wild food weekend would be a real treat for a group of foodie girlfriends. Experience real foraging; learn to cook with professional and passionate chefs, and in the evening, feast on the freshest, most seasonal wild food in a warm and beautiful environment!


Stay at the beautiful Trezelah Farmhouse – which sleeps up to 6 people and costs £42.50 per person per night.

City on a budget:

A Sunday day out itinerary in East London.

11:00 a.m. ish – Meet for elevenses at Treacle, 110 – 112 Columbia Road.

12:00 p.m. ish – Wander the market, buy flowers and browse the shops at Columbia Road Market

2:00 p.m. ish – Visit the Powderpuff Girls for a 30 minute manicure for £25

3:00p.m. ish – Indulge in a late lunch at the Goodlife Diner in Shoreditch and chair dance to the hot tunes while enjoying a devilish yee haa of a burger and milkshake.

Or, for a flavour of trendy East End dining head to Smiths of Smithfield where you can choose from 5 floors of dining experience, from the relaxed brasserie on the ground floor, wine tasting in the wine rooms or a slap up Sunday lunch in the dining rooms on the 2nd and 3rd floors.

The Treat Retreat:

A complete relaxation and pampering weekend, West Devon.

Hen party retreat weekend for up to 7 people. This is a real treat for the bride and her chickens in need of proper break in advance of the big day. Staying in a beautiful thatched cottage, enjoy fluffy towels, comfy beds, a local pub, unlimited chocolate, beauty treatments and all the home cooked food you can manage, and when we say it is all inclusive, we really mean it.

The weekend package will cost you £250 and includes accommodation, all home cooked meals, tea in bed in the morning, a treatment from a visiting beauty therapist, Sunday papers of your choice and all the chocolate you need.

A Cosmopolitan Party:

Cocktail clinics for the girls – Bristol, Sheffield or Brighton

A great party piece for a group of up to 25 people and it can be arranged at your house or in a bar. In a two hour session, a lovely friendly and experienced bartender will take you through all the need-to-know tips and techniques of cocktail making but leaving you to make up your own mind about the cocktail drinking bit; you can do that bit any old way you like.

The clinic costs £32 per person and including three cocktails each. Click here (use link from above) to find out more or to book.

Combine this with playing classic hen party games, ’Mr and Mrs’ or ‘Guess who brought the pants’ – very mature, very funny, very ‘have to be played or it’s not a hen night.’

Festivals: Green Man and Bestival

Rock out at a ready made party – boutique festivals such as the Green Man Festival, Brecon Beacons, 20-22 August 2010 or Bestival, Isle of Wight are the perfect place to party with your girlfriends over a cider or two, enjoy great live music, mad fancy dress, sunshine (if you’re lucky) and dancing.

Green Man Festival, Glanusk Park, Brecon Beacons, 20-22 August 2010: Enjoy acts such as Laura Marling and Mumford and Sons in a really quite beautiful location. “Of all the festivals in all the fields in Britain, probably the best field of all has been bagged by the Green Man Festival” (The Times)

Bestival, Robin Hood park, Isle of Wight, 9th – 12th September go for more than just the music. Dress up in the ‘Fantasy’ fancy dress theme, enjoy a dance to the Dizzee Rascal and then head off to the heavenly healing Lounge for a massage – don’t forget to pre book!

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Basically girls, with all this to choose from, if we see you at All Bar One this Friday night, there will be trouble…

ENJOY!

I love that there is such a variety of things to see and do here and there’s loads of focus on actually spending quality time with each other, as lets face it, not everyone wants to wear their knickers on their head whilst licking cream off an over-oiled Adonis wanna-be’s torso! Thanks to Louisa and Ooh.com for getting in touch – I know I’ll be keeping the site bookmarked for future inspiration.

Have you gotten any inspiration from these and do tell, what are you doing/did you do for your hen do?

Yours Truly,

Rebecca
xoxo

Glamping.

August 2nd, 2010

I’m guessing most of you must have heard of it right? camping only with a pinch of glamourama thrown in.

We’re talking wellies but we’re talking chic Hunter wellies or those with a super cool Cath Kidston-esque floral print.

We’re talking sleeping under canvas but extremely fancy yurt style canvas not a 2 man leaky tent from your local Millets.

We’re talking original 60’s caravans but re-decorated retro 60’s caravans complete with pretty chintzy china and cute cupcakes -not those where the door hinges are rusty and the windows are drafty.

And never have I been so excited as when I discovered the ultimate location for Glampers – Love Lane Caravan and Campsite in Cornwall.


* The Website illustration – we love!

‘Tis completely fabulous.

Not only do they have the prettiest meadow for you to pitch up your own piece of glamping spectacular but they also have renovated caravans for hire ranging from gypsy rose romance to the kind of pull-along treasure your Grandparents used to own.


*Afternoon cup of Tetley anyone? loving the retro decor

What Love Lane Have To Say On The Matter:

At Love Lane, we have a small selection of classic caravans that we have lovingly restored. Whilst keeping each as original as possible, they have been decorated and fitted out in such a way as to accentuate their individuality and character.

As these caravans were designed to stop where fancy took them, they are functional without the need for an electric hook up. They are kitted out with all that you might need for a comfortable and authentic caravanning holiday – the kitchens are fully equipped with “of the period” items that you would expect to find at home. Bed linen, BBQ equipment, and outside seating are also provided and will be set up ready for your arrival. All you need bring are your clothes and towels. So it’s a bit like having a rather stylish boutique hotel room in a fabulous location, and provides the fun and freedom of caravanning without the headache.


* Make like a fortune teller in this original romany number

The campsite is a short stroll away from a working organic farm that churns jersey milk into icecream, the little local village of Keverne and two picturesque beaches.

I’m thinking ideal Eco Chic romantic break for two, a fun packed hen weekend for your favourite girls or how about a reasonably priced mini-moon in the British countryside?


* Love Lane’s Campsite – lots of lovely near by to entertain

And I haven’t even told you the most ruddy brilliant news yet folks!

THEY DO WEDDINGS.

Uh Huh. That’s right Lovelies.

You can have your own “Wedding Day Festival” at Love Lane, with “plenty of room for a marquee” and with the use of the caravans to house your guests it sounds like hippy, bohemian W-day perfection to little ‘ol me.

In fact I am so excited by the prospect I can hardly ruddy believe it – Can you Imagine?!!!!!! Well yes I can actually – complete outdoorsy heaven.

And I know what your thinking – “what about if it rains?” well the answer is this – Can still be amazing, remember the wellies I mentioned at the beginning of the post? well check out our featured wedding Sunshine On A Rainy Day for ultimate inspiration, as you will see: the weather did nothing to dampen their spirits.

For more information please visit the Love Lane website…….. and if you do fancy it as a venue, Adam, Rebecca and I want an invite. Really.

Big Glamping Love

Charlotte xxx

P.S Having just read this piece back to myself all excitement seems to have transformed me into some kind of “I can’t ruddy believe it” Victor Meldrew type character. Hmmmm, is it my age?
P.P.S I meant what I said about the invite!

A Super Style Shoot

July 29th, 2010

We’ve featured quite a few engagement shoots so far on the blog and they tend to be quite casual affairs, with a relaxed vibe. This is perfect for the less camara-ready couple but if you’re ready to face the lens and happen to be more of a fashion maven… what to do? Doll up obviously!

I’ve been watching this particular photographers blog for sometime and when I saw this super stylish couple gracing their pages I immediately asked if we could feature them. Kiren and Sandeep are getting married next month and if the e-shoot is anything to go by, it’s going to be a very chic affair. Photographed by Alie and Niels at Blue Sky, the images pop right off the page – I can’t wait to see the Wedding!

Kiren has written a little bit about the shoot and her wedding planning for you all to read… plus there’s some seriously magazine worthy fashion fabulous images to enjoy below – Thanks Kiren!

Sandeep and I had our pre-wedding photo shoot at Edinburgh Quay with Ali and Niels from Blue Sky Photography. It was a fantastic day and even the weather held out for us. I wore my Christian Louboutin shoes and Sandeep got to practise his moody model poses.

Ali and Niels are great to work with. They both have a great eye for detail and created some amazing compositions. The overall style was contemporary and this complimented our funky look on the day. They both managed to depict our personalities in the photos and make us look wonderful. Thanks guys!

Our Wedding preparations

Sandeep and I are hosting our wedding reception at Hopetoun House on 8 August 2010. We are extremely excited as the wedding will have breathtaking decor and many surprises throughout the evening. The team at Hopetoun have been marvellous in creating my dream wedding at Scotland’s finest stately home.

When I first visited Hopetoun House, I knew straight away that it was the perfect venue for our wedding as it signified Sandeep and I as a couple – classic and sophisticated!

From a very young age I always envisaged a big wedding encapsulating my cultural background of bright colours and bollywood beats while still creating an overall contemporary classic look. This has been the impetus for our theme throughout. It has been great seeing all the final details come together.

My main focus throughout has been on decor and creating an experience for my guests which they will not forget. We have split our marquee in two to create a day and night feel which has worked brilliantly with help from Ed at Arc Marquees. He has designed a bespoke layout so that we have a main dining marquee which will potentially accommodate 450 guests and a dance marquee with a chic lounge area which will be revealed later in the evening.

It’s important that with this much space the decor creates the right mood for the day while still representing us as a couple. I am using two styles of flowers and three main colours to dress the marquee alongside some other luxurious props to set the tone. I hope the blend of colours will create the impact I am looking for while still maintaining a real polished look.


My favours on the tables completely represent me and are uber girly and sweet! Gemma at Planet Flowers and Zsa Zsa at Event Den have been great in taking my ideas and creating the perfect look for our day. The catering is going to be traditional Indian cuisine. Food at a wedding is always important and we wanted our guests to be well fed so we stayed away from designer food and kept it simple.

There will be many surprises to entertain our guests including a spectacular grand finale just to give our wedding the ultimate x-factor!

I just love the stylish fashion vibe to this shoot and the fact that this modern couple weren’t afraid to make it reflect them, uber chic and sophisticated. Thanks Kiren and Sandeep and also Alie and Niels from Blue Sky for allowing us to blog this.

Anyone else planning on Rocking a super Modern wedding or contrasting a classic wedding with some fashion forward modern engagement shoot ideas?

Yours Truly,

Rebecca
xoxo

Love is………..

July 21st, 2010

Love is laughter and sunshine and swinging from branches

Love is blue rimmed umbrellas and luscious lashes and seeing you smile

Love is bright red post boxes and bicycles and kissing you anywhere…. everywhere

Love is touching you and wanting you and holding your hand

Love is needing you and missing you and being yours forever

Love is EVERYTHING about the beautiful engagement shoot of Suzannah and Ed submitted by the lovely Kate from Craig Williams Photography.

Enjoy Lovelies.





This is what Suzannah had to say about the Big Day:

We are both really laid back about everything and we are not sweating over the small stuff – as long as we are both happy and healthy and both there on Thursday at 2:00 it’s all good!

The bride and groom are going for a “Vintage/Shabby Chic” inspired wedding at Butley Priory and Suzannah is actually going to be wearing her Mum’s wedding dress that was originally made by her Nan adapted to fit her.

Um – how cool is that?!

Now you gorgeous lot – I have some Wednesday afternoon fun for y’all…..

Finish this sentence “Love is……” in the comments section on this post.

Can be as straight forward, as random, as short or as lengthy as you like.

We want to know what represents the big L.O.V.E for you!

Big Love is…… Love

Charlotte xxx

Sk8ter Chic.

July 7th, 2010

Now you guys know how much I love an engagement shoot – almost as much as I love a wedding in fact. I think it’s the pure unadulterated display of “I fancy the pants off you” adoration. You gotta love the LOVE right?

Anyways folks….. I bloomin’ love this one.

The bright colours, the choice of setting, the cute couple, the amazing photography.……

I could go on.

But I won’t.

I’ll just let you see for yourselves and read all about Polly and Ralph’s experience first hand ;-)

We liked the idea of meeting our photographers and getting to know them before the big day given that we had initially booked them following a telephone consultation as we live far away. We found them from Polly’s cousin Fran whose wedding Chris and Erica shot in Northamptonshire last year.

We loved how they captured David and Fran’s wedding and as guests at their wedding we knew how inconspicuous they had been yet still captured great photographs. We liked the idea of a pre-wedding shoot because we hoped it would make us feel more comfortable so the actual photos would be more natural looking.

We began across the road from where we live in the picturesque Battersea Park which gave the photographs a more country feel We then moved onto the South Bank as Chris and Erica had the vision of getting some more edgy city shots as a contrast to Battersea Park and also as a contrast to the country backdrops we’ll have when they shoot our wedding in Suffolk in August.

The shoot was great! We were both apprehensive about what to expect but Chris and Erica made us feel so comfortable. They were really relaxed and yet gave us pointers about how to pose to get the natural looking shots that we want. After only a short while we were both really enjoying it! Our photos are amazing and everybody who sees them really loves them!




We will have gotten engaged and married all within five months and actually it hasn’t been the big stressful rush that you might expect. Firstly that’s thanks to one of my best friends and bridesmaids who is an events manager at Penni Black. She has sorted out all of our equipment and yummy food.

Secondly Ralphs best man’s company provided us with a brill free website at gettingmarried.co.uk – at first we thought a wedding website would be a bit cheesy but it saves paper and is so easy to make! You can personalise the whole thing and it gives accomodation lists, directions and travel details without you having to do anything but enter postcodes!


Anyone else doing ring to aisle in 5 months or less?

Do you favour edgy and urban to pretty and country?

We would love to know.

With thanks to Erica and Christian from Christian Ward Photography and Polly and Ralph for sharing the images.

Big Sk8ter Love

Charlotte xxx

Park Life.

June 24th, 2010

Is it me or is there anyone else completely obsessed with cardigans?

Whatever the season, whatever the rest of my outfit, nine times out of ten I will somehow manage to fit a cardi in there somewhere.

I am not loyal to a certain type either, my wardrobe houses anything from urban All Saints-esque long drapery to girly brightly coloured cropped to my current penchant for an old fashioned floral number.

I don’t know what it is. I am just a knitwear geek I guess ;-)

What makes me smile like nothing else at the moment then is a bride who choses a little cardigan to wear over her bridal gown……

Uh Huh, that’s right folks: white dress + cute cardi = seriously cool.

Speaking of which the lovely Chanelle from Sergerius-Bruce Photography sent us over the gorgeous Anniversary images of Kimiko and Wei who not having had the opportunity for an engagement shoot decided to instead capture their first year of marital bliss…..




Kimiko and Wei live near Hyde Park and really enjoy the abundance of flowers and greenery it offers, Chanelle proposed a relaxed and informal shoot to really capture the natural beauty of the park and Kimiko and Wei’s relationship rather than the usual London hotspots associated with city living.

It’s all about making it totally reflect who you both are as a couple be it an engagement, W-day or a decade of love later….




Are any of you lovelies considering a cosy cover-up come W-day?

Well if you are here are a few high street knits I am currently coveting:

Dreamy Ditsy Print at Dorothy Perkins , make like ray of sunshine Wei in bright yellow from Oasis and yes I know it kind of resembles the interior of a 60’s caravan but that’s why I like it.…..floral geek chic at Monsoon.

With a huge heap of thanks to the lovely Chanelle for submitting the images.

Big Cardigan Love

Charlotte xxx