Badgley Mischka

Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
The Boys
The Boys
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Wedding Party
Wedding Party
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
Fine Dining
Fine Dining
Elegant Grey, Green, White & Gold Black Tie, Marquee Wedding at Tullyveery House N. Ireland with Decor & Styling by Mood Events | Badgley Mischka Lace Bridal Gown | Grey Jarlo Bridesmaid Dresses | The Lou's Photography | Soul & Rise Film
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Charlotte & Paddy

Elegant black tie weddings are fast becoming one of our favourite looks on RMW at the moment. First adopted by our American friends and finding their way over the Atlantic ocean to grace our beautiful wedding features too.

The groomsmen opt for dapper tuxedos and the bridal party gowns are always absolutely jaw dropping. This is certainly true of bride Charlotte in her lace Badgley Mischka wedding dress with detachable train. Seriously, wow!

Charlotte and Paddy compliment their attire with a timeless grey, white, greenery and gold colour scheme, and together with Mood Events and Floralearth they style the marquee at Tullyveery House in N. Ireland with epic results. Think greenery table runners, hanging installations and romantic taper candles.

Now get those pinning fingers ready because The Lou’s have captured it all to perfection.

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Beautiful Floral Inspiration At Brinkburn

This shoot is simply beautiful. Brinkburn looks like a absolutely idyllic venue and if you’re planning a wedding in Northumberland, I’m envious! It has that perfect combination of grandeur and intimacy, the countryside surrounding it is stunning and it’s an elegant yet neutral space.

I just love what Helen at Bels Flowers and Katy the photographer have done with the space. Beautifully organic and sumptuous floral displays, the prettiest table styling and a golden hued Badgley Mischka dress that is out of this world.

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Nancy & Joe

Gorgeous couple Nancy & Joe live in Australia but decided to elope to Santorini to escape the stress of having a large wedding back at home – I’m sure some of you in the midst of wedmin right now will be envious.

Santorini just looks like an incredibly romantic place, the images almost take you to the little cobbled winding streets, surrounded by bleached white dome shaped buildings, with the scent of fresh and vibrant flowers filling your nose and that golden, glowing light warm on your skin. (And if this doesn’t make you want to go on holiday I don’t know what will…)

Although a simple elopement, Nancy & Joe still went to town with the flowers and fashion for their big day. Nancy wears a gorgeous Badgley Mischka drape back gown adorned at the shoulders, paired with gold Jimmy Choo sandals. Joe wears a classic tux, made by Hugo Boss no less.

I think Nancy’s soft pastel bouquet might be one of my favourites of the year…it’s just beautiful. And it warms my heart that after the ceremony, the couple got changed, and just went out for an intimate, sunset dinner together. Totally simple, but the perfect end to what looks like a perfect day.

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Toothpaste Kisses.

Rachel and Niall married in May 2012 at St Edmunds Church, Southampton. The reception was held at Rotherwick Village Hall.

Anyone having dress wobbles will be reassured by Rachels opening paragraphs, with a combination of self belief and a boutique sourced on the Love Lust List that went above and beyond – Rachel got the dress she wanted and the fit that she deserved.

Photography today is by Andrew JR Squires.

I Thought I Was Going Mad

My dress was Essence of Australia D1158 from Cariad Bride in Faringdon.

In the beginning I was adamant I would have a short dress but was open to suggestion and trying most things on although I did have quite a closed idea of what I didn’t think would suit my shape. I loved lacey fitted numbers but just had in my head that you needed to be tall and skinny to pull this off until one lovely shop assistant forced me into such a dress. This wasn’t the one but certainly opened my mind to trying more things. My shopping assistants (bridesmaids and trusted advisor!) all preferred the longer dresses and when I tried on Essence everybody said yes – that was that.

I must confess that I didn’t purchase the dress in the shop where I found it because after some internet searching I found it significantly reduced simply because the shop had decided not to stock the designer any longer and therefore didn’t want to keep the dresses on. A bit cheeky but we had to watch the purse strings and I would encourage people to look around as I did find significant variation in pricing.

It would be nice to say ‘and that was the dress done’ but other people may find it reassuring to hear that I then spent the next six months obsessing that I had made the wrong decision. I convinced myself I didn’t even like the dress and spent every day looking at something more pretty on these very pages. A short dress was also very much on my mind. What made matters worse was that I lost a bit of weight and the dress needed taking in quite a lot – I never actually tried on a version of the dress that fitted me and so my vision of what it should look like was based on the model – all pinned and perfect! When it came to the alterations it seemed the seamstress didn’t quite share my opinion of what the shape of the dress was. From the waist up and the length she got right – but from my hips I felt it just hung like a sack and should have been more fitted – she just insisted I shouldn’t base things on the airbrushed model. I cried. I didn’t like it. I was sure it wasn’t meant to look this way – my mum could literally grab 5 inches of material on the small of my back. They said I looked amazing. I thought I was going mad.

So I found my way to the RMW pages browsing the Love Lust List. I decided I needed a second opinion and it was the best decision I made. Sam from Mamfii Bridal saw me that week – the week before my wedding – to do a fitting – amazing generosity given my dress wasn’t bought here. The boutique is beautiful, Sam was amazing, reassured me that I wasn’t going mad, I was completely right and preceded to pin the dress to the shape it was meant to be – requiring inches of material to be chopped. It instantly looked better. The alterations were then turned round in a small number of days and cost less than the bad ones! I cannot stress the importance of good alterations and sticking to your guns. I would also urge anyone to go to Mamfii to find their dress – it is sublime and Sam is a hero.

I also found a short cream lacey number that I changed into once the party really got going 😉

Hand craft

My friend Katie is amazing with all things craft. Not only did she make our invitations and table plan but she hand crafted my hair slides. Having seen something similar for hundreds of pounds she created a better version for a fraction of the price.

I decided to keep my jewllery simple and sentimental. I wore a necklace that I wear everyday which was the first piece of jewellery Niall bought for me. I wore the bracelet that my parents bought me for my 18th. A veil wasn’t for me though I did come close. I just felt there was so much detail on the dress that it was almost hiding it so I let the dress do the talking.

Manhatten Mission

Shoes oh I love shoes. I spent three months in New York just before the wedding and shoes were my Manhattan mission. I settled on a pair of skyscraping Badgley Mischka’s that were just lush. They were so comfortable and I lasted until 4am in them!

Looking Good All Day

I spent a small fortune on Bobbi Brown products and then had a friend apply all of our make-up on the morning. My hair was also done by a friend – I decided I wanted it up pretty early on as I wasn’t convinced it could be down and look good all day.

Freshly Picked

We are very lucky that my auntie is a florist and prepared the bouquets and buttonholes for us. She also ordered all of the flowers for the venue – we were after a ‘just been to the garden and picked a bunch’ look. We had lots of gyp, lizzyanthums and wax flowers – again inspired by these pages.

The lady who does the church flowers is also a good friend and prepared flowers with a similar theme for the church as a wedding present.

Hit the Highstreet

We bought the bridesmaids dresses and groomsmen’s suits. None of us really liked the traditional bridesmaid look, having a bit of an aversion to shiny material, and we wanted to keep things fairly relaxed to fit with the general theme. So in the end we went high street and found some lovely dresses in Warehouse. The boys all wore yummy three piece suits from Ben Sherman at Debenhams.

He Smelt Good

Niall wore a three piece Ben Sherman suit and looked awesome. I don’t remember too much about walking up the aisle but I’m told I marched pretty quickly! I remember being excited to get to Niall and give him a cheeky kiss and squeeze his hand. Not only did he look amazing but he smelt so good – fragrance is so important!

Fussy Photos

We loved Andy’s portfolio and when we met him we got on so well. He was relaxed and seemed to understand what we were after. I was very fussy about what photo’s I liked so there weren’t too many choices of photographer but being relatively new to the industry at that point Andy was also a bit cheaper than some other people we considered which helped!

Fresh Berries

My friend Jen makes awesome cakes so there was only ever one choice. Neither of us like wedding cake so that wasn’t an option. We went for a three tier Victoria Sponge with fresh berries – it was immense! We also had a cake table filled up by my lovely family and friends – with everything from cupcakes and chocolate cake to apple pie and scones. People helped themselves to cake after lunch in place of us serving a dessert.

A Filled Floor

Niall DJ’s in his spare time, as do quite a few of his friends so music was really important to him and a standard wedding DJ was never going to do the trick. We set up the PA system – complete with smoke machine(!) and once the party got going the boys all took it turns to play some tunes – the dance floor was literally filled all night.

Niall also spent a lot of time beforehand making playlists of softer music which we played over lunch. Niall did a fantastic job with the church music too and one of our lasting memories will be walking out of the church having just got married to Elbow’s One Day Like This.

Short and Sweet

Our first dance was to The Maccabees – Toothpaste Kisses. Amazing song by a band close to our hearts and an added bonus of being extra short!

Mixtape Favours

It may now be obvious but music is close to our hearts so our table names were our favourite bands and our favours were mix cd’s of our favourite songs. I was really pleased that almost everybody took the cd home and I have had numerous messages since the wedding to say people are playing it in their car and loving reliving the day.

Flowers Everywhere

The hall itself was very pretty and did not have much scope, or really need anything, to hang from the walls or ceilings etc. There were a lot of things we needed to have in the room so we made them into decorations – pretty areas which caught the eye. We had the cake table, the table plan and gift table, a table with photos of our parents and grandparents getting married, the bar, the cocktails etc and flowers everywhere!

On the tables we had jam jars tied with lace and twine with meadow flowers, and the table names were our favourite bands – with their album cover on top of an empty wine bottle. We also had lots of jugs and vases of flowers scattered around the hall and little lanterns that sparkled when it got dark.

I was quite conscious that the hall didn’t have any soft seating, as you would normally get in a hotel, as I thought the dining chairs might be a bit much for such a long time and the older guests. We managed to get hold of some sofas and armchairs from freecycle the day before and they worked perfectly.

Odd as it is to describe it as decoration one of my favourites things was the ladies toilets! Having settled on a village hall I expected this to be one of the things that we would have to compromise on but they were great – really big and spacious with lots of mirrors! I thought it was really important to make them even nicer so we had flowers, nice hand washes and hand creams and wicker baskets full of anything anyone could have needed – pain killers, plasters, hair grips, deodorant, mints, flip flops! You name it we had it – it was quite a fun thing to do and people seemed to really appreciate it.

Food for Thought

Nobody ever talks about the food – this was so important to us. When we started planning we decided the three important factors were good food, plenty of booze and great music. We were also very clear the day was going to be relaxed and not at all formal so we wanted the food to reflect this and we wanted to avoid people being hungry. After the church people boarded the buses and were provided with journey snacks in blue and pink stripy bags – Tunnock’s teacakes and Caramel bars to represent Niall’s Scottish contingent.

When we arrived at the hall we had Jam Tart Cocktails – in old American sugar shakers with stripy straws. The drinks all lined up looked fab as people walked in and were delicious. The glass jars were probably my most ridiculous wedding project – I found them whilst in New York for 50cents each and knew they would look great. 150 later though I had to persuade everybody who came to visit me to wrap them up in their pants and take them home for me!

We then sat down for lunch – we had a cold buffet which was already laid out on each table and guests helped themselves ‘family style’. We had cold meats, salmon, bread, cheese board and salad. Everybody then attacked the cake table and helped themselves to an array of dessert following which we had the speeches. In the evening we had a hog roast with all the trimmings which was delicious followed by ice creams. I cannot recommend our caterers Uptons of Bassett highly enough – they went far above the call of duty, helping with everything and anything they could and the food was out of this world.

We really wanted a relaxed day with happy guests and a full dance floor. We thought it was important to keep as much as we could in one room as this created the atmosphere. We didn’t have a lot of help from hired staff – only the 3 guys from the caterers so we needed to rely on hard work beforehand from our friends and family and they really stepped up – we couldn’t have done it without them. We didn’t have a formal bar – the drinks were kept in a chiller and moved out as they needed to be replenished and people just helped themselves which worked really well. I would encourage people to think outside of the box in terms of a venue as we got ours for a tiny fraction of the price of some more formal spots we had considered and I don’t feel it meant we compromised on anything – in fact it meant we had the extra cash to do things like have a free bar all day. The venue itself also acted as a relaxant – really setting the scene and getting everybody to have a great day.

We had been concerned about the venue being forty minutes form the church but this was fine – we kept people amused with journey snacks on the way and the journey home was amazing – the spontaneous sing a long was one of the best bits of the day.

One of the best things my bridesmaid forced me to do before the wedding was sit down and write down every little thing that was meant to happen, when and who was involved. Having other people know what should be going on enabled them to help as opposed to everything just being in my head! Everybody was fantastic leading up to the day and on the day itself – we couldn’t have done it without all the help we got. Once we finished prepping the hall on the Friday night I totally let go and relaxed and just concentrated on enjoying the day which was one of the best things I could have done – once you get to that point you need to just enjoy it.

Photographer – Andrew JR Squires

Boutique – Cariad Bride

Dress – Essence of Australia D1158

Shoes – Badgley Mischka

Maids – Warehouse

Groomsmen – Ben Sherman

Groom – Ben Sherman

Catering – Uptons of Bassett

Good food, plenty of booze and great music… I don’t think you can go far wrong with Rachel and Niall’s ethos.

It certainly looked like a party full of fun and with the attention they paid to the food, to the music they played and to getting the vibe just right made this big day an undeniable success.


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Cosmic Love.

Before we go any further I probably need to tell you all that I love this wedding. I LOVE IT.

I have struggled to edit the photographs down from the selection Joanna Brown sent in to Rock My Wedding because I simply wanted to use every single one. She has captured the day perfectly.

The preparation, perfect. All the reception details, perfect. Walking to the church, perfect. The couple shots… Well, what do you think?

Agata and Alex got married in Ditchling, East Sussex. The reception took place at the Ditchling Village Hall.

The One

The dress is Justin Alexander style 8530 and it is from Leonie Claire Bridal Boutique in Brighton. It is a lace, satin and silk gown and it was the first dress I tried on. In total I tried on 8 or 9 dresses which I am told isn’t much at all but I kept going back to this one. It was my mum who made me realise this was the one. Each time I put it on she had tears in her eyes.

A Perfect veil

The gown came with a lace veil and as soon as I tried it on I knew I wanted it. It seemed so perfect and completed the look I was going for. In terms of jewellery I was only going to wear my engagement ring and a brooch from my lovely bridesmaid which was attached to the bouquet as my something borrowed. I ended up however wearing a small locket too which was a present from Alex on the morning of our wedding.

I had a silver satin sash added to the dress with crystals sewn onto it in a floral pattern. I knew I wanted to add a little bit of colour to the dress and after a few tries I asked the bridal salon to make the sash and to make it in silver/ light grey shade. The dress took 4 months to make and it was a very exciting 4 months! I couldn’t wait to try it on when it was finally ready and that really was the moment when it all became real to me. I was getting married and this was the dress I was going to wear.

Dazzling White

I wore skyscrapers! 4 inch heel and a small platform Badgley Mischka’s Babette slip ons that I first saw on Pinterest and I knew those were the ones. When they arrived they were perfect, dazzling white with satin and suede and a little bit of sparkle!

Lush Lashes

I found the hair style I wanted on Pinterest. Really I don’t think I could have organised the wedding without Pinterest, it’s full of so much inspiration! Because the wedding was English countryside set in the middle of the Downs I wanted a darling look with plaits and soft waves. The make up was going to be quite simple but with a little bit of glamour and so I asked for false eyelashes and an eyeliner flick on the eye.

It took a few tries to get the look I wanted. The first make up artist and hair stylist made me look completely different to the pictures I showed. I was so disappointed it was really hard to look for someone new and hope that this time they would do what I asked for.

Becky from Beauty Call responded to my email in 3 minutes late one evening. I was so impressed I knew I was onto something good. She was an absolute diamond and I could not believe how beautiful she made me look and that was just the trial. On the day of the wedding she was fantastic again making the bridesmaids look gorgeous and being completely calm. She was great to have around because you really need someone to calm your nerves! Once again she made me feel beautiful and was so much more than I could have ever asked for!

A Rustic Look

Ali Ball from Gobotanica was the wonderful florist behind the brides and bridesmaid’s bouquet’s and groom’s and groomsmen buttonholes. I asked for peonies and ranunculus and she delivered them beautifully.

The church and reception venue were decorated with flowers by the groom’s mum and her friend. They even went to a wedding flower arranging course a few months before the wedding. We went shopping together at flower markets in Brighton 3 days before the wedding aiming for pink and purple blooms.

They did an amazing job! We also spent hours making the flower jars, sticking on lace, hessian and string to make them look rustic.

Grey And Purple

Alex’s brothers were his joint best men. They both wore their own grey suits and purple ties which were part of our pink, purple and grey colour theme.

The bridesmaids chose their own dresses from Karen Millen and Dorothy Perkins following in the theme and matched them with stunning hot pink Carvela open toe stilettos. I wanted them to choose their own dresses to make sure they felt fabulous!

Crisp White Shirt

The groom’s suit was Ted Baker. Alex knew he wanted a grey suit and a crisp white shirt. The shirt was Italian and Alex wore his granddads cufflinks with it. I tried to sneakily get him to buy a silver tie that would match my sash on the dress without reviling the secret of what I was going to wear. The first time Alex saw my dress was when I walked down the aisle to him. We kept it a complete secret wanting to make the moment as magical as possible.

A Valentines Shoot

As soon as we got engaged I was researching a photographer. We knew that it was going to be very important because the day would go by in a flash and we would have the pictures forever to relive the moment. I started following Jo Brown’s blog and a few weeks later I noticed she was doing a Valentines photo shoot for couples. I emailed immediately and we got in (woohoo, spaces were limited!).

Alex was a little nervous about having his pictures taken so this was a perfect opportunity for him to break the ice before the wedding so to speak. Jo turned out to be wonderful the minute we met her! She made us laugh and giggle so much and she even managed to make us do perhaps a little peculiar things like lie down in a corn field in February (haha!) but the pictures turned out great! We knew her style of photography would suit us and our venue completely and she was such a pleasure to be around. We couldn’t imagine asking anyone else.

Gorgeous And Personal

Our gorgeous and talented friend Clare from Little Bear Cakery made the cake as a gift to us! The top tier was a fruit cake which we’ll keep for the christening of our first baby (one day!) and the bottom tier was a vanilla sponge with vanilla icing and jam. We wanted a classic white cake and Clare matched the lace on the cake to the lace on my dress exactly! She is so talented; the cake was gorgeous and personal and tasted delicious!

Jukebox Jury

We looked at band after band on the internet but couldn’t find anything we really liked – lots made us laugh but none were exciting! In the end we stumbled upon a chap called Nick Lipton at a friend’s party, he plays sax and clarinet beautifully. He played whilst we had our meal and afterwards we had a jukebox.

The jukebox was hired from Jukebox On The Night and was a fantastic Wurlitzer! The little children at the wedding loved the bubbles and lights in the side which was an added bonus. We were allowed to add our own CDs and even had the index cards printed up so that our guests could pick some of our favourite tunes in addition to the classics the jukebox already came with.

Falling In Love

Our first dance was to Florence and The Machine – Cosmic Love.

We looked for ages as our “falling in love songs” were all from The XX which is a little too chilled out for a first dance. We chose this song because the lyrics are beautiful and the song is quite dramatic and atmospheric.

Jam Packed

Homemade jams were our favours. We collected jars for months and the groom’s mum and dad made raspberry and plum jams to give to the guests. Happily everyone has told us that they are absolutely delicious.


Pretty much everything was homemade. We ordered pink and purple paper lanterns to decorate the venue and hung them with lots and lots of fairly lights. Twigs were collected and bunting was made. Table runners were sewn and place tags hand stamped and punched with a little heart hole puncher. The entire wedding was a family affair with friends and family chipping in and crafting together. Our friend Kat prepared the lovely Italian feast and she and her husband Nick were making the chunky boards to serve the antipasti on two days before the wedding. Guests who wanted to contribute to the wedding brought desserts. We had the most amazing selection of crème brulee, tiramisu, heart shaped brownies, cheesecake and lots more. They were all delicious and very personal!

We are planning on selling lots of bits and bobs from the wedding and even offering to hand make luggage tag place names for people – our Etsy store is nearly open.

A Final Thought

Follow your heart is the best advice I can give to any bride. Use wedding blogs and sites such as Pinterest for inspiration. There are lots of beautifully talented people out there who will inspire you no end.

Photographer – Joanna Brown

Venue – Ditchling Village Hall

Dress – Justin Alexander

Boutique – Leonie Claire Bridal Boutique

Shoes – Badgley Mischka

Hair and make-up – Beauty Call

Florals – Gobotanica

Cake – Little Bear Cakery

Jukebox – Jukebox On The Night

Entertainment – Nick Lipton

So what did you think?

The hessian table runners, the lace, the Wurlitzer… I could go on but I feel like I need to blow into a paper bag for a bit.

This is a simply beautiful casual D.I.Y affair that has made my day.