This month I thought I’d do a round-up, which I’ve catchily titled ‘What we’ve learnt about wedding planning and stuff…’
I guess the biggest thing we’ve learnt is that it’s your day and you can go as big or small and intimate as you want. That’s not news to any of you, but it’s pretty hard to stick to. Just because people expect certain traditional elements that doesn’t mean you have to do them, and if initially you think that you don’t want something, then change your mind that’s fine too. This goes for every part of the wedding, the hens and stags, themes and the venue as well. If it isn’t offering what you want, don’t be afraid to tweak things or just find somewhere else – pick up the phone and have a conversation with someone about trying something different; you never know, it might be the push that they are looking for. You’ve got to be happy with where you will be celebrating what is potentially, the most important and biggest day of your life. Hopefully you’ll only be doing it once so it’s got to be right.