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Modern Warehouse Wedding in London

This modern warehouse wedding London is a great example of how to save on certain parts of your wedding when you’ve blown the budget on others.

Cantara & Michael found their perfect wedding venue, RMW fave Trinity Buoy Wharf in London and overspent to secure it. They were thrifty finding suits and bridesmaid dresses in the Boohoo sale (at £25 each!) and made elements for the day themselves to compensate. The overall look is certainly not compromised.

As well as using RMW The List Member, Captured by Katrina Photography this gorgeous couple used Rock My Wedding to get inspiration on decor for their venue and one of their ceremony readings “I found it so helpful looking at previous Trinity Buoy Wharf weddings on Rock My Wedding to see how they’d dressed the venue with flowers. I discovered “Union” by Robert Fulghum on Rock My Wedding and it was perfect for us and the foundation we’ve built together over the last 10 years.”

We are so glad we could give you the inspiration you needed to create your perfect day.

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Anna & Ben

The colours, fashion and floristry at this stylish London wedding are simply delicious. Forest green, mixed with crisp white and subtle blue thistle and blush accents look truly spectacular. Especially against the exposed brick and wooden trestle tables of Brixton East’s industrial, warehouse venue.

But Anna, oh my Bride Anna. What a real beauty and contemporary bride in her Rime Arodaky separates. I love the lace ‘Caplan’ crop top and ‘Arizona’ skirt combo. It is perfect for this fun celebration metres away from the couples home and suits her down to the ground. Plus her braided up do. All the heart eyes.

Hermione McCosh Photography has captured this couples personalities wonderfully, wait until you see the epic pic of them being lifted up by the crowd.

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Evie & Rob

Evie and Rob look so flipping glamorous in their vintage car that they remind me of movie stars about to ride off into the sunset.

This beautiful twosome decided that they wanted their wedding day to be one long epic party so they picked a dry hire venue with a late licence so they could dance their way into the early hours at The Loft Studios. The pair combined beautiful, summery vibes with a beach themed courtyard and the Australian outback complete with a crocodile and kangaroo and driftwood! I know flipping epic.

Can we also take a moment to appreciate Evie’s exquisite Ritva Westenius frock which Ellie captured swooshing perfectly in a black and white photo in the slider at the top here. It’s possibly one of my favourite back of the dress shots to appear on these pages…

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Hollie & Luke

Get prepared to views some seriously cool squad girl pictures captured by Ellie Gillard of Bride Hollie & her bridesmaids strutting their stuff around the urban streets, hopping on buses & applying lippy. I want to join them now, especially if it means I get to don a flower crown as fabulous as theirs.

I’d also like to hang out at Brixton East. Such a cool urban warehouse venue and the fact that it’s filled with Smeg’s, sequins and glitter makes it even more appealing.

SO much love for this fun winter wedding. Pinning fingers at the ready… you know what to do.

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Natasha & Matthew

Well this morning’s beautiful couple are one stylish pair. Bride Natasha wears the stunning Eden Jenny Packham gown and looks absolutely incredible in it and Groom Matthew looks equally dapper in his mixed tweed Ted Baker suit & bow tie.

Cleverly fusing their love for their urban city life and their country roots they stumbled across a beautiful rustic barn in an industrial location. And I have to say it’s the most fabulous venue and couldn’t be more perfect for them. Scrolling through the pictures you’ll see perfect portraits captured with picturesque rural backdrops and raw industrial beauty. It’s kinda of like getting two weddings for the price of one!

I haven’t even mentioned how absolutely amazing all the array of high street pastel Bridesmaid dresses are yet and the hand picked meadow bouquets are just beaut!

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Fifty Shades Of Grey

when Lolly told me about this wedding… A groom called Adam wearing tweed and brogues I started to wonder if this might be a wedding delivered through time from the future and that I was, just like Marty McFly in Back To The Future 2, interacting with an older version of my own self… That’ll teach me to drink Gin before noon.

Anna and Adam had a beautiful unique wedding full of quirky, hand made details. The wedding took place at Dorset House in Bury, West Sussex. Anna looked absolutely stunning in her Maggie Sottero dress with fishtail plait. This wedding was captured beautifully digitally and in film by Camilla Arnhold.

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An English Country Backgarden


Claire and Steve wanted everyone to have an amazing, relaxed time and didn’t want anything too formal or stuffy. Their focus from the start was on food, drink and dancing.

Aside from this though they also managed to create a beautifully styled big day on a modest budget, partly by having the wedding at home…

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Claire The Bride: We got married at my Mum and Dad’s place, small-holding in a village near Retford in Nottinghamshire. We chose to get married there as we wanted somewhere relaxed and non-formal (plus they have a lovely garden and lots of space!). We had the ceremony in the walled front garden and then moved up to the paddock where we had Papakata’s twinkly light tipi tents.

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I did my own make-up and stocked up on lovely Chanel products for the day. I had a manicure and pedicure and my big sister’s hairdresser did all the girls’ hair on the day (and did a great job trying to make our hair look ‘messy but not!’)

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Wheat Fields & Gates

I really wanted a dress that was easy to wear and simple and to be honest the dress was, for me, one of the least important parts of the day. I really didn’t enjoy the bridal boutique experience and ended up finding my Biba dress at a department store in Glasgow (where we live) for the bargain price of £200! I was really pleased with my dress and was more than happy to walk through wheat fields and jump gates for our photos. I also ended up tying the dress in a big knot to allow for easy dancing in the evening. It survived quite well considering all that.

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Gold Accessories

I bought so many pairs of earrings but in the end I just wore a gold-leafed bangle from Anthropologie. My shoes were my something old – comfy gold, wedges. I also had a lovely Biba marabou and feather cape but I never actually put it on as it was too hot dancing the night away in the tipis!

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Men & Maids

We had two beautiful bridesmaids and two handsome best men. My sister wore a simple champagne dress from Coast and my other bridesmaid Kay wore a lovely dress from Warehouse, the only directions were ‘nude-kind-of-colour’ and they both looked amazing! Steve bought his suit from Ted Baker and the best men bought their suits two days before from Hugo Boss. (They came from Oz via Europe suitless.)

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English Country Garden

We didn’t really plan to have a theme but in the end we went for a lot of natural colours: nudes, wood, kraft brown and sage green. In the end it turned out to be kind of rustic/english country garden style.

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Steve made lots of home-made signs including a wooden sign-post with all the places people had travelled from to come to the wedding – Adelaide, San Francisco, Istanbul, the Caymen Islands. We also decorated the Whisky Barn with a gallery of framed family wedding photos. The tipis didn’t really need much decorating as they were lovely with lots of twinkly lights, wooden pools and a disco ball. We didn’t do favours as such, instead we had baskets of pashminas and flip flops and a tuck box of sweeties, crayons and games for the children. We also had jars of marshmallows to toast, cookies and sparklers.

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Forget Me Not

I loved our flowers and I was very sad that I couldn’t take them all with me on the honeymoon! Sasha from Forget Me Not did a fantastic job and chose the perfect flowers, apricot and nude David Austin roses with mint, veronica, jasmine and hydrangea. We had our ceremony outside under a beautiful arch of roses and on the tables we had collections of mis-matched jam jars full of flowers placed on wooden rounds that my dad had chopped up. The table place names were tied onto ivory serviettes with a spring of lavender picked from the garden.

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The One

Our ceremony was written by Kate Gee a humanist wedding celebrant. We met with Kate a few times so that she got to know us. We picked two readings ‘The One’ and The Apache Wedding Blessing’; one was read by Steve’s sisters and another by a good friend of ours. The ceremony felt very relaxed but I think we fidgeted throughout! We chose Jose Gonzales’ ‘Heartbeats’ to walk down the aisle to which was performed by the amazing Daisy Wignall and on the way back down Daisy performed ‘Cupid’ as the congregation threw confetti (dried flowers picked and dried by my mum throughout the year).

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Pimms & Champagne

Daisy played a lovely acoustic set in the front garden whilst guests drank Pimms and champagne and snacked on canapés. During dinner we had a rat pack-esque playlist and we later danced the night away to the fabulous band Soul Summit – who were fantastic! They played two sets of soul music including all the classics. We even had a surprise impromptu live version of ‘Love Shack’ sang by one of Steve’s mates and to finish off the night we had a DJ who kept us dancing till 1pm (when we had to pull the plug for the sake of the neighbours). Although we weren’t planning on having a first dance, somehow on the day Steve decided we had to, so we danced to Ray Lamontage’s ‘ You are the Best Thing’.

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We had fantastic caterers (we were really lucky all our suppliers were fab!) Ann Wright and her team served up delicious canapés including smoked salmon bilinis, minted lamb skewers and caramelised onion and goats cheese tarts. We didn’t want the traditional three course meal so following an abundance of canapés we then went for a BBQ type main meal and had boards full of steak, chicken, salmon, salads and new potatoes. We decided to bypass dessert and instead went for a self-serve table of cakes including a carrot cake with orange buttercream, a coconut sponge with lime curd and Malibu buttercream, a lemon drizzle cake with blueberry conserve, chocolate cake, Tiramisu cake and chocolate cupcakes. Our main wedding cake was a naked cake – a victoria sponge with strawberry jam and vanilla buttercream. The yummy cakes were baked by a lovely local lady Jayne at Cakes by Occasion.

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DIY Designs

Steve designed our invitations which included mini-maps and RSVP postcards. I tied them all together with twine and floral gift tags with the names of guests written on them. Steve also sorted out all the place names and all the card signs we used. We wanted things simple so we just used brown kraft card.

Food, Drink & Dancing

Advice: make sure you agree and decide on your priorities and then put your efforts into making those bits great! We wanted everyone to have an amazing, relaxed time and didn’t want anything too formal or stuffy. Our focus from the start was on food, drink and dancing! If you decide to have your wedding at home think about all the things that this involves. We didn’t really and then were faced with the realisation that we had to do everything! Sort out toilets, a generator, all the drinks, refrigerator trailers … it can be quite stressful as there’s nobody there to sort it out.

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Dress Biba
Cape Biba
Bangle Anthropologie
Maids Coast & Warehouse
Celebrant – Kate Gee
Flowers – Sasha Fenby at Forget Me Not
Tipi HirePapakata
Caterers – W&M Wright Caterers
Cakes – Jayne at Cakes by Occasion
Music – Daisy Wignall and Soul Summit
Photography – Weddings Vintage

Beautiful backgarden wedding and beautiful images by Weddings Vintage.


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Karen & Lee… Peace & Love (Part 2)


Peace & Love (Continued)

As soon as Lee turned around (and burst into tears), I threw myself into his arms and planted a big kiss on his lips. After being told off by the Registrar ‘you haven’t got to that bit yet!’ we held eachothers hands and it was just me and him. This was our moment.


We chose three readings to add to the ceremony and three gorgeous girls to read them. Lee’s cousin Tara stole the show as the three of us hugged our way through her tearful reading from Les Miserables, followed by her sister Daisy & our mate Jess who both did us equally proud reading lyrics from What Is Life by George Harrison & an extract from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin.


As soon as it was over I wanted to rewind and live it all again. It was like I was floating in a bubble and couldn’t quite snap out of it to take everything in. For someone who initially questioned getting a wedding video, I am now eternally grateful to Papertwin for being there and capturing every moment of that ceremony (even the bit where I almost fell flat on my face as Lee and I dashed excitedly up the aisle). Those memories are priceless and we’ll get to live them over and over again. They also created a short trailer for us which has me in tears every time I see it, it’s such a beautiful account of our day.


Thank You For Being A Friend

Still in our bubble, we snatched some time away from the party for our couple shots with Claire Penn, she surprised us with 12” George Harrison and Lady Gaga records and we dropped into Probe Records next door to the venue for some photos. It was a lot of fun entertaining the bewildered customers as we made out behind the vinyl.


What more can I say about Claire that I haven’t already – the sunshine and love just beam out of our faces in her photographs, and as we knew she would from the moment we met her, she has told mine and Lee’s love story better than anyone else we could imagine. I am so glad we met her, and so proud to now call her a friend. 

We returned to the party to find the dancing had already started as our buskers Rag Tag Misfits were bringing the house down.


Usually found playing to shoppers in Liverpool One, Helly and Andy rocked up and surprised our guests. We’d provided a load of percussion instruments in their guitar case so our friends and family could join the fun, they went down a storm.


Our table decorations ended up being a perfect jumble of old books, and flowers in crystal and pewter vases that I’ve collected from charity shops and car boots over the last 18-months, along with a mini-library table plan with it’s very own set of vintage golf clubs, book-page hearts and paper flowers scattered around the room. Everything that we loved, all thrown together in a perfect mess of us!


For favours, we had badges made with favourite movie quotes, song lyrics or little phrases that mean something to us. I have to confess, after spending many wrist-breaking hours with a Badge-It machine, I decided enough was enough and bought them from Awesome Merchandise with a little help again from Claire.


Sometimes there’s such a thing as too much DIY. Our mini-vinyl CD’s (a joint DIY effort between Thom who designed my stationery, me and Ian from Strange Case Collective) also sat at each place setting and provided the best soundtrack for dinner – putting the theme from The Golden Girls up against The Doobie Brothers was a musical masterstroke! Speeches were entertaining and emotional, as Lee, his best man Paul and my bezzies Liz and Phil all said a few words – with Margaret Cho, Kelly Rowland and HM The Queen all playing their part!


For place cards, I took inspiration from Rock My Wedding’s ‘Jar of Hearts’. Having already dished out the badges, we didnt include that part, but asked each guest to write their words of wisdom to be displayed on a big canvas and kept forever… there were some very touching and funny messages.


The cake was entrusted to my good friend and RMW regular, Sarah otherwise known as One Jolly Girl. Her ‘Nudist’ cake was absolutely delicious and looked amazing – a tower of decadent spongey, creamy, fruity joy just waiting to be in and around my mouth, topped off by little wooden versions of me and Lee, from Goose Grease, painted by Sophie at Strange Case Collective.


As we got up to cut the cake, my mate grabbed me and showed me her phone. Remember Claire I told you about? She had JUST given birth to the most beautiful baby girl. The whole wedding raised a glass to little Megan, it was a special moment. 


A massive party with beautiful people

A couple of months before the big day, you might remember that Lee and I had a bit of a reality check about the limited guest list. There are so many people that we love, and those people love to party – so we changed the evening venue. It was a GREAT decision.


We called another favour in and a friend turned up with a vintage double decker to transport our guests up the road. 

We arrived at Parr Street Studios and once again, the girls from Strange Case Collective took my breath away – 250 metres of paper hearts were strung from the ceiling, turning the former recording studio into a cathedral of pretty!


The Rag Tag Misfits were playing Ho Hey, the girls thrust a pramaretto (yep – still drinking them!) into my hand, ‘Pumping Iron’ was playing on the big screen (we couldn’t resist… and it was followed through the evening by ‘Withnail & I’ and ‘In Bed WIth Madonna’) and I had another one of those ‘pinch yourself’ moments. This is EXACTLY what we had in mind! 


For our first dance, we’d tried to decide on various love songs or slowies from the huge list of music we’d already chosen, but nothing seemed right. Our second song was decided before we even got engaged, ‘Yes’ by McAlmont & Butler – but whatever way you look at it, it is not an appropriate first dance.


It was about a week before the wedding when we were in the car and one of our favourite songs came on, ‘There She Goes’ by The La’s. We both looked at eachother and knew that was it. It was great to have an upbeat record to get the party started, the dancing didn’t stop until the early hours. 

I’ve never known a wedding DJ as brilliant as Paul from Wedding Jam, we knew he’d be great but he was the unexpected hit of the whole day.


Quality music from start to finish, guests didn’t stop telling us how brilliant the music was all night and they’re still talking about it now. He was a bit of a heart-throb too. 

As the night ended and we should have been drifting off to our hotel suite up the road, Lee and I ended up doing what we always do – carried on drinking!


It was very late but a few bars were still open and we ended up in a bar called La’Go. Just us, finally being able to sit together, relax and laugh about what a crazy day we’d had… although of course we drew a little bit of attention.


Let Your Hair Down

Many couples talk about finding time to spend together on your own, and its true – it was good to be alone finally, it feels like Lee and I barely saw eachother all night. But more than that, if I could give any advice, I would urge every Bride and Groom to let go of the stress, chill out and make their wedding day a real celebration of their love and happiness.


Lots of us obsess when we’re planning a wedding about the details and ensuring that we look perfect, and that’s fine. I loved every minute of that, but the most important thing I can share, is that once the day comes, put all of that to one side and enjoy yourself. 

Spend a little bit of money on having someone you can trust to decorate the venue and to be there on the day running the show like clockwork, so you can let go and just enjoy whatever happens.


I genuinely don’t know what I would have done without Colette from All Wrapped Up Events – what a woman! It left us to focus on with the people we love most in the world around us, and the rest just came naturally. Our friends and family are all such fun, wonderful people it was the best day ever to just see them all having a great time and making new friends.


It was the happiest, wildest, most emotional day of our lives and we shared it with the best people imaginable. Boss. 

Nothing else mattered.

Peace & Love

Karen xxx


And here is that film lovingly created by Papertwin.

THE END….. Well. Not Quite…

a postscript…

Well, as far as Lee and I knew that would be it. Our friends from Papertwin, Strange Case Collective and Claire Penn on the other hand, had other ideas.

It’s really hard to even describe what happened next without going back to the start. When we met Danny & Sophie (aka Papertwin & Strange Case), it was clear that we were going to become great friends and we did, very quickly. What we didn’t know was that even back then, Danny was hatching a plan. As the first wedding Papertwin had filmed, he wanted to do something special, and he managed to keep that plan a secret from Lee and I for the entire time.

Danny, along with Sophie and Claire contacted my Male of Honour Phil and organised the most beautiful and amazing surprise that has ever been staged. By anyone. Ever.

Earlier this month, we’d arranged to meet the couple for Sunday breakfast and the handover of our wedding video. We went along to our favourite little cafe to find them waiting outside, they hailed a cab – apparently breakfast wasn’t happening. A few minutes later, after noticing a suspicious looking camera we came to a stop outside Woolton Picture House, a beautiful old cinema in the Liverpool suburbs, on the steps outside were our families who had all come to join us for the ‘secret premiere’. We were gobsmacked.


Strange Case Collective had revived our beautiful paper flowers and heart garlands from the wedding day, along with some AMAZING movie posters. We stepped through the doors taking our retro yellow tickets (yep, tickets!) to find bucks fizz and sweets for everyone along with a stunning three tier cake from the legendary Laura’s Little Bakery.

It didn’t stop there, two seats were set up at the front for Lee and I with huge peace & love signs, popcorn and prosecco. The guests filed in a few rows behind, ready for the show to start – and the show, boy do these guys know how to make a wedding film. It blew us away. The whole experience was like re-living our wedding again, every emotion and feeling came rushing back as we watched it on the big screen with our families with us enjoying every moment. It was truly magical. It is impossible to express what this day means to us, and just how overwhelmed we are by the time, love and effort put in by our beautiful friends to do something so special. We can never thank them enough.

Of course no day with Papertwin & Claire Penn would be complete without capturing it on camera. They made most incredible heart warming, emotional film (only mildly spoilt by my sobbing minceface) documenting what happened. This is that day, in their words…

You can see images from the day on Claire’s blog here.


Venues – The Athenaeum & Studio 2 at Parr Street Studios
Brides Dress – Eternity Bridal
Brides Veil – Sara Gabriel
Brides Headband – Glitzy Secrets

Shoes – Miu Miu

Groom’s outfit – Gieves & Hawkes
Maids Dresses – Warehouse 

Bow Ties – Mrs Bow Tie (quote ROCKMYWEDDING for 10% off!)
Photography – Claire Penn Photography with 2nd Shooter Cassandra Lane

Video – Papertwin
Decor – Strange Case Collective
Planning & Co-ordination – All Wrapped Up
Cake – One Jolly Girl

Stationery – Thom Morgan
Cars – Classic Wedding Cars
Band – Rag Tag Misfits

DJ – Wedding Jam
Catering – Pickled Walnut
Flowers – Passion For Flowers

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Well, I hope you all enjoyed that peeps, what a beautiful account filled with little tear jerky moments (yes even for a boy!)

And what an ending… No words for that.

It makes me a proud wedding blogger to see our little Karen & Lee all grown up and married and making their own way in the world… With one hell of a lot of love and support from their family and friends to help them on their way.

We’ll miss you guys – don’t be strangers

Adam x

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Karen & Lee… Peace & Love (Part 1)


Adam here… Introducing the very first wedding from our last bunch of lovely real bride ladies, and first up is Karen who married her man Lee on June 1st.

If you are new RMW reader unfamiliar with Karens story then read no further!!! Firstly read Karens whole planning story right here. It’s a corker and a story this good should not be started at the final chapter! Talking of which… I will now pass the blog over to Karen for the very last time…

Karen: Hello, it’s been a while! 

When I last left you all, I was days away from the most surreal and wonderful day of my life. The day before however, was a complete mess of activity, emotion and co-ordinating as I suddenly realised that the to-do list was more than I could handle. The table plan, flowers, tan, nails and box packing all had to be done – so the arrival of my friends Liz and Neenah was an absolute godsend.


Those girls calmed me down and ran the wedding sweatshop with military precision before the arrival of the wonderful Colette from allwrappedupevents and Sophie from strangecasecollective who whisked it all away and worked their magic on the venues. 

The morning of the wedding started at 5am in maybe the most unexpected way… A text from one of my best friends – she was in labour!

Thoughts of the wedding melted away briefly and my thoughts were with Claire & her husband, bringing a new little life into the world, they had a huge day ahead and I was so excited for them both. (my second thought of course was to text Colette to rearrange the table plan). The sun was shining, I was surprisingly calm and we had a wedding AND a baby on the way. Best day ever already!


Still in our PJ’s, we descended on my parent’s house. My Dad took one look at us bouncing in and retreated to Morrisons for more champagne, it was all systems go. 


In Good Hands

There’s only one woman on earth I trust to take a pair of scissors to my fringe – my hairdresser of over ten years, Clare. So it was only natural that she did my hair for the big day. I didn’t want it too formal or structured, more ‘Bardot does Bridal’. I really don’t suit my hair up, so a more tarted up version of my usual party hair suited me down to the ground.


In the early days of searching for a veil, I fell in love with Sara Gabriel from across the pond – designer of a stunning range of couture veils. She couldn’t have been more helpful and was more than happy to ship the super-cute Emma half circle veil over to the UK. I paired it up with a very simple pearl and crystal headband from Glitzy Secrets


Warning: massive list of amazing make up products…
I’m incredibly lucky that my wonderful friend Neenah is an Account Manager for Estee Lauder, and offered to do my make up for the wedding. I knew I could relax and let her work her magic, to have me looking my best. 

A common debate between my online Bride friends (hi girls!) is what foundation to use, as a lot of light reflecting foundations look great in the day, but then awful when every drunken pal is pointing their iPhone at you on the dancefloor. The answer is HD! Neenah created a blend for me of Smashbox HD and Make Up Forever HD Foundations which meant it stayed put and looked perfect on camera. The ever faithful MAC Studio Fix (concealer and powder) finished off my base along with another magical combo of Bobbi Brown Shimmer Brick in bronze, Estee Lauder Soft Shimmer bronzer and MAC Mineralize blush in Love Joy. For my eyes she gave me a solid and lasting liner with Estee Lauder Doublewear liquid liner in black and Doublewear pencil liner in Onyx, MAC Opulash Optimum Black mascara with my favourite Chanel eyeshadow-duo in Taupe – Delicat. The whole look was topped off with Estee’s pure colour Crystal Baby lipstick.


My unfailing cosmetic brand loyalty didn’t stop there as I piled on my favourite scent Estee Lauder Sensuous and Chanel nail colour in May.


50s Dior

My dress must have been one of the biggest dramas of the entire planning process. The minute I wore my dress, based on a forgotten Christian Dior design from the 1950’s, I fell in love.


Then I wobbled. badly. You might remember that one. Thank God I got over it because I felt so special in my dress on the big day – As soon as I put it on I felt like a princess and loved spending the next 12 hours swishing about with my petticoats. 

It was perfect for me, pulling me in to show off my waist then flowing out to hide my little beer belly under all the skirts, while having some lovely detail on the top to give the illusion of me having boobs! It even had pockets to hide my hankie and lippy in. Amazing.


I knew I wanted killer shoes, so I went for a gorgeous pair of sky high strappy Miu Miu heels. My jewellery was all a lovely surprise from Lee on the morning of the wedding – some beautiful, understated sparkle! Knickers from Agent Provocateur naturally, and I managed to end up with two garters from the Mums. I have to say, Lee’s Mum’s 40 year old garter – complete with giant plastic cupid is one of the most fantastic things I’ve ever seen.


The Handsome Groom

Lee has always been a bit of a sharp dresser, so I had no doubt he’d be looking amazing on the day. I was right, he looked dead handsome! I think he put as much effort into his outfit as I did with mine. It was a total secret until we saw eachother at the ceremony.

First stop was Savile Row. He had a bespoke, three-piece tweed suit made by Gieves & Hawkes with a very pale yellow dress shirt and yellow patterned tie, also from Gieves & Hawkes. He paired the suit perfectly with a pair of beautiful two-tone brown leather shoes from Loake Shoemakers. His yellow socks and cufflinks, were also Gieves & Hawkes.


Maids & Males

I knew I didn’t want typical bridesmaid dresses for the girls but it was tough finding the right look as I wanted them all to look stunning. I wanted a dress they’d all love and wear again. We had a few failed attempts at online decision-making before hitting the high street for a day of shopping. 

We found the perfect dress in Warehouse. Cute and flattering with a real 60’s vibe – exactly what we’d been looking for. The dresses were ivory, so for a little pop of colour, their feet became my ‘something blue’. I wanted sexy bridesmaids and thats what I got… legs legs legs! My male of honour Phil wore a sharp three-piece navy Daniel Hechter suit & Doc Marten shoes while my 20-month old nephew Oliver matched Lee in a gorgeous tweed set with chinos and baby brogues. Both boys wore matching bow ties from Mrs Bow Tie.


One of the most magical moments of the day for me was the arrival of the flowers. After spending months planning every detail of the day, the flowers were out of my hands and the final look was a total surprise. I’d worked with Dale and trusted him completely to create something special and unique – I loved the anticipation of not seeing his creation until the big day.

My flower choices were very personal to me and I wasn’t sure how they would look together. Of course, they were sublime. Built around a base of a huge white hydrangea, there were peonies, roses, ranunculus, daisies, lisianthus, astilbe and of course a little peep of willow. They were stunning and smelled like heaven.


Before I knew it we were all suited, booted and the beautiful cars chosen by Lee (a 1920s Bramwith and Daimler Landaulette) courtesy of classicweddingcars.org were waiting outside.

We were ready to go. 


I loved driving through town with my Dad, waving and smiling at everyone the whole way, I’m never one to shy away from attention and I felt like royalty. We arrived at The Athenaeum expecting to be greeted by the bridal party who’d left 15 minutes before we did… The first comedy moment of the day. They weren’t there! 

After taking a wrong turn and getting stuck in the one-way system, they came reversing up the road – cheering and waving – making a spectacular entrance about ten minutes later. It was hilarious and left enough time for me and my Dad to enjoy one last glass of champagne before we headed inside. 


Peace & Love

Our loose ‘books and music’ theme came naturally with the venues we’d chosen, but more than anything, we wanted our day to have a laid back, fun, retro vibe. We’re both strongly influenced by our parents in life, so we drew from their wedding days – working little details into our own day such as the colour scheme and flowers – while also reflecting our own personalities. The girls from Strange Case Collective had really gone to town creating our Chanel-inspired staircase and it looked fantastic, better than I could have ever imagined. I’d worked hard to plan the decorative touches, but I could never have achieved what they did. It was the cherry on the cake and the amount of work and love they’d put into our wedding day blew my mind.


We’d also left out a few little gestures for our guests, like a little chest filled with vintage hankies at the entrance to the library, to mop up any emotional tears (there were many) and also a little beauty box in the ladies toilets for touch ups and repairs – this is one gesture that doesn’t cost the earth but will mean the world to your girls when they need an emergency safety pin or spritz of hairspray. I totally recommend it.

Finally, I could hear the opening notes of Something by George Harrison. I gave my Dad’s arm a squeeze and walked into a dream…


Venues – The Athenaeum & Studio 2 at Parr Street Studios
Brides Dress – Eternity Bridal
Brides Veil – Sara Gabriel
Brides Headband – Glitzy Secrets

Shoes – Miu Miu

Groom’s outfit – Gieves & Hawkes
Maids Dresses – Warehouse 

Bow Ties – Mrs Bow Tie (quote ROCKMYWEDDING for 10% off!)
Photography – Claire Penn Photography with 2nd Shooter Cassandra Lane

Video – Papertwin
Decor – Strange Case Collective
Planning & Co-ordination – All Wrapped Up
Cake – One Jolly Girl

Stationery – Thom Morgan
Cars – Classic Wedding Cars
Band – Rag Tag Misfits

DJ – Wedding Jam
Catering – Pickled Walnut
Flowers – Passion For Flowers

…And that is where we leave it for now. Make sure you pop back this afternoon for part 2… complete with a surprise ending that no-one could have predicted.

Adam ‘Cliffhanger’ Crohill.