FAQS
How do you work?
I believe in creating ceremonies that are centred around the beliefs, values and wishes of the couple. As an Agnostic, I welcome people of all faiths and none, those who consider themselves spiritual but not religious, and those who don’t know what they believe. Ceremonies can be funny-sweet, deeply meaningful, sincere and timeless, gentle and thoughtful. They can unfold over a hike in the hills or at one or more of your chosen venues. All elements of the ceremony are your choice, all locations are welcome. I celebrate love in all it's wondrous forms. I’m relaxed in all settings and I enjoy meeting new people. Clients describe me as calm, thoughtful, warm, grounded, joyful, sincere, friendly, insightful and light-hearted. I’ve been a celebrant since 2012, and absolutely love it. My goal is always to provide a creative, friendly, insightful service. I really take the time to get to know you. Over a period of weeks or months I will work with you to lovingly craft a ceremony that is all you wished it to be. I plant a tree in honour of every couple I work with as part of a rewilding project in the Scottish Highlands. A percentage of your fee goes towards our wider community work. Every ceremony I lead is distinctly personal. It feels great as a Celebrant to say “Yes! Let’s do what you want to do… it is your ceremony!”
We’ve been told that we are not allowed to mention any reference to God in our ceremony – or include prayers or any sacred words or religious music. Is that true?
The ceremonies I lead are Agnostic, not Atheist. At Agnostic Scotland, we endorse no single belief or religion. In addition to offering entirely secular ceremonies for those who prefer non-religious content, we also work with many families who wish to include some aspect of spirituality, faith-based content or sacred wording (even if they do not personally identify as being religious). Many mixed-faith families who wish to combine their beliefs into one ceremony also choose an agnostic ceremony. Some families, even though they have opted for a secular ceremony, may want to include a hymn or sacred reading – perhaps because they are familiar with it from their upbringing, or because they feel that it is important for their attending family and friends. I am flexible and can work with you to create a ceremony that reflects your wishes, beliefs and values.
Some Celebrants have told us we would need to write our own ceremony. Is that true?
I love writing ceremonies! Every couple and family are different. Some like me to write the whole ceremony based on their thoughts and ideas. Others like to work with me to co-create their ceremony. Some like to write the entire ceremony themselves. I am happy to work with you as per your wishes.
We’d like to book you to conduct our ceremony. Do we have to join your organisation first?
Absolutely not. Our Supporters are anyone who shares an interest in the philosophy and values of Agnostic Scotland and wishes to support our community work. We put no pressure on anyone to support Agnostic Scotland. We are proud to offer an additional choice to couples looking to make their life commitments to one another in Scotland.
Can you do legal Marriage ceremonies?
Absolutely! Through Agnostic Scotland, I am able to conduct all aspects of your Wedding Ceremony, including the legal aspects. However, I am often asked to conduct non-legal weddings, Reaffirmations, Vow Renewal ceremonies and Life-Partnership ceremonies. My role is to work with you to create a ceremony that will make your heart sing.
How much of the day are you available for, if we book you?
I only book one ceremony per day and my time is yours for the day. This gives you flexibility should you need to adapt the timings around the weather, or if you are planning parts of your ceremony in different locations.
Testimonials
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