A couple of weeks ago we ran a competition on our Instagram and we were struck by one comment in particular that said ‘As a gay man planning a wedding, I often feel excluded from the community but your page really tries to include and I love that’. That was written by Will Farmer and he’s here today to talk to you about planning his wedding to Fiancé Tom during lockdown.
Continuing our celebration of Pride month on RMW we’ve rounded up all the fabulous Gay weddings we’ve featured. (And, if you didn’t see them on Saturday we also shared a roundup of all our Lesbian weddings.) As we stated yesterday, weddings are all about people coming together in love and friendship and being proud of who you are and who you love. These stylish grooms not only don killer suits and colourful blazers but also nail all the wedding decor and details. From pared-back minimalist weddings to super-luxe Christmas celebrations, there is definitely a wedding style for everyone.
If you’re having a wedding with two brides or two grooms, often the aisle is the biggest cause of stress – do you both walk down? Does neither of you walk down? Who walks you down? What about your outfits?! Do you go matchy-matchy or do you coordinate…?
Worry not! Because luckily for you the RMW readers are a wise bunch. We’ve rounded up the best pieces of advice on having a same sex wedding from our real couples. They have covered all the things you need to consider and all the things you really don’t need to worry about. Read this and also listening to this episode of our podcast and we promise that your mind will be put at ease.
We thought it was high time RMW joined in Pride Month and reminded you of some of the incredible Lesbian weddings we’ve featured. (Don’t worry we’ll be sharing our Gay couples tomorrow.) Because, weddings are all about people coming together in love and friendship, and being proud of who you are and who you love. Plus, just like the saying #loveislove, #inspirationisinspiration, and well, there is certainly an abundance of it here. Hello, double helping of wedding dresses and brides in killer suits!
BUDGET £20 – 25K
Happiness radiates throughout Tony and Robs vintage styled gay wedding at The Roost Dalston. The couple both live in Australia and so had to plan the majority of their day remotely, top of their list was picking a very distinctive and eclectic venue which they definitely succeeded in, creating style and colour from the props and artwork to inspire the decor perfectly. Both of their smiles are infectious and both grooms looked extremely dapper in their M.J.Bale suits. Their intention for the day was to be as informal and intimate as possible, enjoying every moment with their closest friends and family who, for some, were meeting for the first time producing a real mix of tears and laughter throughout, I’m sure you will also be smiling your way through this same-sex celebration.
BUDGET £25 – 27.5K