Family intimate wedding at Gilstrap Registry Office wedding

Intimate Gilstrap Registry Office Wedding

Photography by Pear and Bear Photography

Alexa, play ‘Family Affair’ by Mary J Blige because this Monday morning wedding at Gilstrap Registry Office is all about celebrating love and family. Nicolle & Bassey have been together for nine years so their wedding was long awaited. The couple finally said their vows surrounded by the loving presence of their closest family members and the participation of their four remarkable children. Nicolle was 6-months pregnant with baby number 5! Despite having just 6 weeks to plan this intimate day, having family all around turned the wedding from a legal event into a cherished family gathering. Recommended Supplier, Pear & Bear Photography, had the honour of capturing this special day.


A beautiful Monday morning wedding at the Gilstrap Registry Office with a glowing pregnant bride

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The pinnacle of our wedding day, was the symbolic union of our two families, coming together to form one. This was more than just a ceremony or a celebration; it was the celebration of a new family and the beautiful children we created together. Witnessing the intertwining of our roots and the expansion of our family tree was a sight that carried an indescribable poignancy. The formation of our family, a vibrant tapestry of personalities, stories, and shared bonds, was undoubtedly the most cherished chapter so far.

Nicolle & Bassey

Bride in long sleeve satin wedding dress with pearl embellished veil walking up the stairs to the registry office with her son
Pregnant bride in satin wedding dress walking out to confetti with the groom in a black tuxedo
Bride carrying a pink bouquet in a long balloon sleeve satin wedding dress sharing a kiss with the groom in black suit with their kids running around
Lilac and purple wedding bouquet for the bride with cosmos and more flowers
The bride and groom sign the wedding register at their Gilstrap Registry Office wedding
Flower girl and bridesmaids in white dresses with the mother of the bride at the intimate wedding
Page boy in black suit and shirt with white flower buttonhole at registry office wedding
Groom in black suit with bright red socks standing eight the bride in a long sleeve satin wedding dress holding purple bouquet
Young flower girl in a white bridesmaid dress with frilled sleeves
Flower girl in white dress with large pink bow on the back of the dress at intimate wedding of 15 guests
Pregnant bride in satin wedding dress with all her daughters in white dresses
Family photograph on the wedding day at Gilstrap registry office wedding venue in the East Midlands
Micro wedding planned in six weeks with pregnant bride in satin gown with groom in all black suit
Wedding guests walk from the registry office to the wedding reception
The groomsman, groom and page boy in black and navy suits at micro wedding
Gilstrap Registry Office wedding with the bride and groom walking back down the aisle as a married couple
Wedding portrait of the bride with her children in black and white wedding outfits
The bride and groom exchange their wedding vows while the page boy in a black suit tries to offer his lollipop

Gilstrap Registry Office 

Nicolle & Bassey’s wedding at the Gilstrap Registry Office had an atmosphere of 'laid-back luxury.' It was a blend of casual sophistication with just 15 guests. When planning the nuptials (which was just 6 weeks, by the way!), a distinct theme emerged. The focus of this intimate wedding was all about the couple’s local community. With the pressure of just 6 weeks to plan the day, the couple infused the celebration with the creativity and passion of local businesses. Fran from Limewood Flowers lives in the next village, Anna from Pear and Bear Photography is 15 minutes away and the Taylor’s Restaurant is across the road!

A Family Affair 

As an expecting bride with baby number 5, Nicolle’s journey to find the perfect wedding dress was challenging. Yet, after countless hours of extensive googling, Instagram stalking and Pintersting, she found a gown that would beautifully accommodate her six-month bump! Bassey surprised Nicolle with a stunning pair of Jimmy Choo shoes for the day. The pearl platforms served as the perfect companions to the minimalist gown. The final personal touch was an amethyst necklace, which is a family heirloom from Nicolle’s great-grandmother was a very special touch. 

Pregnant bride in long sleeve satin wedding dress walking across the road with page boy in black suit
Bride in furry wedding coat with two of her younger children at the wedding
Pregnant bride in long balloon sleeve satin wedding dress with open back walking with the groom in black suit
Page boy dressed in all black at micro wedding
East Midlands wedding with the groom in a black high neck top and suit jacket with lilac buttonhole
Bride in a long balloon sleeve satin wedding gown with lilac bouquet and pearl earrings
Pom pom pink and purple dahlias in a vase
Pregnant bride holds hands with page boy and groom outside of the restaurant wedding reception venue
Bride and groom pose for couple portrait at relaxed Gilstrap registry office wedding
Bride and groom walk around for couple portraits at their East Midlands wedding
Groom in black suit embracing the bride in a long sleeve satin wedding dress
The page boy and groom in matching black wedding outfits together
Bride with hair in a bun wearing balloon sleeve wedding dress with groom in all black suit
Blue coloured glassware with mini pink flowers in bud vases for wedding
Wedding guests sit together at intimate wedding venue
Pregnant bride in open back satin wedding dress with groom and page boy in black wedding outfits

Can you plan a wedding in 6 weeks? Absolutely! Nicolle & Bassey’s day is so beautiful

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My words of wisdom to those currently planning their special day is to keep sight of the essence of this remarkable occasion - the unity of two hearts, two lives, and two souls. It's the magnificent journey of you and your partner merging into a singular family that forms the true core of this celebration. All the other aspects - the decorations, attire, guest lists - are but beautiful adornments to the day. They add colour, charm, and sparkle to your wedding, but remember, they are just welcome bonuses. So, revel in your love and unity.

Nicolle & Bassey


Gilstrap Registry Office became so much more than just a venue to Nicolle & Bassey. If you’re planning on a registry office wedding, here is everything you need to know! For this couple, having their children present on their day was so important. Planning on having kids at your wedding? Here are some ideas on how you can keep your kids entertained at your wedding


Florist: Limewood Flowers |
Makeup: Hayley Louise |
Wedding Dress & Bridal Boutique: Coast |
Bridesmaid Outifts: Next |
Groom & Groomsmen's Outfits: Hugo Boss |
Shoes: Jimmy Choo
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