pride on rock my wedding

Pride on Rock My Wedding

Photography by Esme Whiteside

We wanted to take this opportunity to talk about Pride and our inclusivity and diversity pledge in a little more detail, particularly the elements of that pledge that pertain to the LGBTQI+ community.

We are aware that for many of you (and as it is for us) Pride is more than just a month in the year. Sharing love found within the LGBTQI+ community is something that is important to us all year round. Last June when we made our inclusivity and diversity pledge and included a specific marker for the LGBTQI+ community to make sure that we furthered our consciousness and could be held accountable by you, our incredible community.

A lesbian couple laugh and embrace during an elopement. Photography by Oli & Steph Photography
A gay couple kiss during engagement shoot. They both hold a glass of red wine and one wears a hat. Photography by Stephanie Shenton Photography.
A same-sex couple stand in front of a classic white wedding car. The woman in front wears a terracotta suit and has platinum cropped hair. The woman behind wears a white wedding dress and has her red hair loosely tied back. Photography by Steph Dreams Photos.
A gay couple sit hand in hand during their wedding ceremony They wear complimenting grey suits. Photography by Ro Van Der wens.
A lesbian couple kissing front of a large window. They both wear white wedding dresses and have long brown hair. Photography by Andrea Ferrera.
A lesbian couple have a wedding photo with their bridesmaids. They both wear white and their bridesmaids wear light grey two piece outfits. Photography by Siobhan Beales.
A gay couple walk down a cobbled Oxford street for wedding portraits. Photography by V&H Photography.
A lesbian couple walk carrying bouquets during wedding portrait shoot. One wears a black jumpsuit, the other a white dress. Photography by Rossini Photography.
A lesbian couple stand in fron of a tall pink wall that has a teddy bear graffitied on to it. One woman wears a white wedding dress, the other wears a white tux jacket and black trousers. Photography by Kirsty Mackenzie Photography.
A lesbian couple embrace as they walk along the beach during wedding portraits. One wears a black suit and the other a boho wedding dress. She carries a dried flower and grasses bouquet. Photography by Sophie Darwin.
A gay couple walk along the beach having fun for  a pre wedding photo shoot. They both wear black tops and have jeans rolled up at the ankles. Photography by Stephanie Shenton.
Our pledge to the LGBTQI+ community

Our pledge states that we will aim to make 1 in 10 articles you see on Rock My Wedding feature members of the LGBTQI+ community. This could include real wedding features, editorial shoots, images within roundup articles, inclusion in social media imagery and written contributions from the LGBTQI+ community.

Unfortunately, we are falling short of this pledge. We release a review every quarter and for the last two quarters, we haven't hit our aim of having 1 in 10 articles featuring members of the LGBTQI+. We continue to actively reach out to suppliers and photographers all the time but still aren't quite hitting the numbers. And we know how much representation matters. We're hopeful that a review scheduled for the start of July, will show that representation has improved this last quarter. We look forward to sharing that with you. Either way, we continue to be accountable and strive to make improvements.

A same sex couple stands on a jeti and pops a bottle of champagne. There is a rainbow in the sky. Photography by Leah Marie Photography.
A lesbian couple stands under an archway outside for a wedding portrait. One woman wears a white suit and the other a white jumpsuit and long veil. Photography by Story and Studio.
A gay couple laugh as they sign the marriage register. Photography by Amy Faith.
A gay couple embrace whilst letting off smoke bombs. Photography by Rebecca Carpenter.
A gay couple leave their wedding ceremony hand in hand and laughing. They wear matching pink suits. Photography by Michael Maurer.
A gay couple leave their wedding ceremony hand in hand wearing matching three-piece suits. Photography by Cat Lane.
A lesbian couple hug for a wedding portrait. The woman in front wears a ruffled peach gown. Photography by Photography Events.
A gay couple wearing matching black tuxedos are surrounded by their wedding party for wedding photos. Photography by Keery Photography.
A gay couple walk through long grass. One carries a flag that reads 'a love like no other;. Photography by Ellen Sear.
A lesbian couple lie looking out of a camper van window and laugh together. Photography by Caroline Goosey.
A celebrant fastens a gay couples hands as part of their wedding ceremony. Photography by Mas Positivo Producciones.
What's next?

We are hopeful that we will be able to continue sharing increased numbers of LGBTQI+ real weddings and editorial shoots. We're thrilled to have Steph, a photographer from the community, share an article with you next week about an LGBTQI+ specific workshop she hosts and share some images from one of those workshops which we know you will love. Steph was responsible for shooting this LGBTQ+ inspiration shoot with bridal jumpsuit, so you can look forward to more from her.

We will also continue to actively seek out weddings and shoots so that we can hopefully get back to maintaining a level of representation that feels, well, more representative. We are really enjoying the amount of LGBTQI+ couples being used in editorial shoots and that the models used are real-life couples. This is so important when it comes to authentic representation. We are also supporters of UK Black Pride and are very aware of the nuance of having representation within representation. We hope to continue to be able to bring a diverse mix of LGBTQI+ couples.

A gay couple smile as they leave their wedding ceremony. One wears a traditional Chinese outfit and the other a kilt. Photography by Thomas Stewart.
A gay couple laugh during their outdoor wedding ceremony. Photography by Deborah Lo Castro.
A gay couple leave their wedding ceremony. They both wear burgundy suits and are smiling. Photography by Cat Stephens.
A young gay couple stand in front of a wall that says 'welcome to Manchesters gay village.'. One wears a floral suit, the other a cream suit and he holds a bouquet of dried flowers. Photography by Esme Whiteside.
A lesbian couple laugh as they walk from their wedding ceremony. One wears a white dress, the other a white jumpsuit. They both carry wedding bouquets.  Photography by Ashley Olaffson.
A gay couple pose for a portrait at their wedding. They both wear traditional Cambodian outfits. Photography by Beatrici Photography.
A lesbian couple laugh and embrace during their couples portraits after their wedding ceremony. They stand in front of a graffiti wall. One bride is Black and her dress has lace sleeves. The other is white and blonde and wears an off the shoulder dress. Photography by Amy Faith.
A lesbian couple sit together laughing. One wears a tulle pink dress with a large pink bow in her hair and the other wears a gold embellished dress. Image by Esme Whiteside.
A same sex, couple from Singapore laugh during wedding portraits. One of the couple wears a white dress and the other a black suit. Photography by Lens of Mira.
A gay couple hold hands lifted in the air during confetti shot after their wedding ceremony. Photography by Miss Gen.
A gay couple wearing matching white tuxedo jackets enter their wedding breakfast. They walk past the top table to cheers and clapping. Photography by Beatrici Photography.
Diversity Filters

Next month we will be releasing diversity filters on the website. That means that you will be able to filter specifically for LGBTQI+, gay weddings and lesbian weddings - should you want to be able to see just that content. We're in the process of refining the filters and adding them to our submissions platform so that you can let us know how you identify, in order for us to be able to represent you fully; should you wish to be a part of the filtered search.

Once the new filters are launched we would welcome your feedback. We want to be sure that they are working for you in the best possible way and that everyone feels represented. We will be adding this information to our editorial shoot submissions form too.

Submit your LGBTQI+ weddings and shoots

If you're a photographer or a supplier and have any LGBTQI+ weddings you'd like to share with us then please do so by visiting our submissions platform. If you're a couple getting married and would like to share your story with us, please ask your photographer to submit it via the same link.

And if you're a Recommended supplier of ours who is part of the LGBTQI+ community, please let us know as we'd love to highlight your work and share your business with our audience.

We hope you enjoyed the love shared throughout this article. These are all shots from just some of the weddings and shoots we've shared over the last 12 months. Here's to much more of it going forward too.

Happy Pride xx


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