Your ‘why’

To be able to go ahead with our wedding we have had to reduce our guest list which as you can imagine has felt impossible.' ‘It’s so important to us that no one becomes ill as an outcome of attending our wedding and considering you're more at risk, we don't want to put you in that position.’ ‘We are concerned that you will spend money on travel and then not be able to reach us, that you may have to be quarantined, that you could lose money, there are so many variables. We would feel much better about not putting you in that position of uncertainty.

Keep your hows and whys to the point. Your main reason for cutting back numbers may be due to social distancing guidelines but perhaps, for example, you have lost work due to coronavirus and so fewer numbers are more helpful to you financially. Don’t feel you have to divulge that information unless you want to. Your main overarching ‘why’ is enough.

Dealing With Negativity

You may have to deal with some negativity or fall out if you uninvite someone from your wedding. Even with the extenuating circumstances, you find yourself in because of COVID-19, some guests simply may not understand. And what can you do about that? Frankly, not much. You can offer your explanation and apologies and alternative ways that they can celebrate with you but beyond that, their feelings are out of your control. Be assured and trust in your decision to continue to get married. Don't let the disappointment of some ruin what will still be a truly magical day.

Let Love Win

You've both been through a lot to get to this point. The stress, the worry, the anxiety, and the uncertainty. We are sure there have been tears, late-night discussions, and maybe even arguments. But somehow, you've managed it. Your commitment to each other has weathered all of that and the team you have formed together has remained unshaken. That's something to be proud of. And that love is certainly something to celebrate. Plus, when you're at the top of that aisle being pronounced newlyweds, you still get to kiss your lover's face off. Take that COVID-19.

Other Helpful Links

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Becky Sappor