We really wanted our day to be a reflection of us and yes, I know, everyone says that! But we really thought long and hard about who we are as a couple, what that means to us, and what that means to our loved ones. We didn't want this to be 'just another wedding'. We wanted everyone to think "of course, they chose that piece of music," "of course, she's worn her hair like that," and "of course, he picked that wine." Every little detail of our day was a conscious choice.
Remember this day is about you and your partner. No one else. Don't let anyone else's opinions, ideas or thoughts about your day blur your vision. Trust your suppliers (they are experts for a reason) and make sure everything you do is for the two of you. Try and be as organised as possible to minimise the worry.