RMW Rates – The Rectory Hotel

The Rectory Hotel

We are really pleased to welcome The Rectory Hotel to The Love Lust List. The Rock My Wedding directory with a difference.

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You can find The Rectory Hotel in our South West Venues category.

Check The Rectory Hotel out and remember if you are looking for vendors and suppliers with the RMW seal of approval, the Love Lust List is only one click away via the ‘Find A Supplier’ tab in the header section.

  • The Rectory Hotel

    www.therectoryhotel.com
    t: 01666 577194
    e: events@therectoryhotel.com

    About Us

    The Rectory Hotel – the stylish country house experience done properly, a beautiful Cotswold retreat, with dedicated wedding planner. Take over our property exclusively and make it yours for your perfect relaxed wedding. As featured on the Brides hot 100 wedding venues and twice on Rock My Wedding – get in touch to make your wedding day perfect.

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May Day Marriage

Kat Forsyth Photography

When I was a little girl, I wanted a rainbow wedding. Ask my Mom, she’ll back me up. I wanted 7 bridesmaids all in the colours of the rainbow. I was somewhat addicted to watching Rainbow Bright…maybe it stemmed from there. As it happened, I was short by 1 bridesmaid on my actual day but my three flower girls wore bespeckled dresses…encapsulating the colours of the rainbow, so I kind of achieved a life long dream…sort of.

At this point you’re probably thinking, ‘what on earth are you prattling on about girl?!’ but I’ve not gone mad. Promise.

Let me introduce you to the May Day Marriage shoot where we’re bringing you the sweetest little dresses from Love Lust List member Little Bevan and a host of inspiration for your flower girls as well as some gorgeous hair and make up styling for, well, you.

Aren’t we good to you!

The concept of this shoot came about when stylist and florist Gwenda Wilkes had a conversation with photographer Kat Forsyth about The Wizard of Oz, the conversation evolved through ‘Somewhere Over the Rainbow’, rainbow bridesmaids, ribbons and maypoles and eventually arrived at May Day Marriage!

So, here it is…enjoy.

May Day Marriage

Gwenda The Stylist: The ancient pagan fire festival of Beltane was celebrated with bonfires, feasting and dancing around a Maypole, a symbol of sacred fertility, marking the occasion when the Goddess and the God would perform the Great Rite (I’m sure I can leave the rest to your imaginations!). This old world holiday was an ideal day for handfasting ceremonies. And so the theme took shape: the May Queen Bride and her seven attendants – 6 bridesmaids and a page boy in every colour of the rainbow – plus her King of the May.

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Exuberant Young Love

Sarah from Riverhill Gardens kindly permitted us to use her beautiful venue, to which we all arrived on a very un-Spring-like morning! Immediately setting about the transformations, Hayley of Flair Beauty did a wonderful job of Olaya’s hair and make-up, creating a soft, natural look befitting her youth. I have previously worked with Liam, our male model, and I knew that he would be great for the role in this shoot. On the day, both of their lovely personalities combined into a natural chemistry that conveyed the precise sense of exuberant young love that I was hoping for.

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The Maypole

Charlotte of Wilden Bride brought along two of her gorgeous dresses, including a re-worked vintage lace piece (her mother’s own wedding dress, no less!). To complete each bridal ensemble we added fabulous veils by Dornellie and exquisite jewellery and hair accessories by Rosie Weisencrantz Vintage Creations.

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Our second Sarah, this time of Little Bevan, created the most wonderful silk outfits in order to bring our rainbow-clad entourage to life. Our child models did a valiant job of remaining thoroughly professional despite being barefoot on the sort of day that they would rather have been wrapped up with scarves, hats and gloves! To keep them warm, Charlotte busied herself with creating our maypole, which was danced with great enthusiasm!

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The Festival Of Flowers

Happily for me, Beltane is also known as the Festival of Flowers. I chose a different type of flower to represent each colour; tulips were red, roses were orange, sunflowers were yellow, carnations were green, hydrangeas were blue, delphiniums were indigo and stocks were violet. A small posy of each bloom was provided for each bridesmaid and a buttonhole for the pageboy. The whole spectrum was represented in the trailing bridal bouquet. I adore using colour in a suitable vintage theme and this shoot, which had something of a 70s hippy vibe about it, was the perfect opportunity to indulge!

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Undeniable Warmth

I adore the way Kat captures the intimate, fleeting moments as well as the more formal portraits. While there was an inescapable chill in the air, Kat’s images exude such an undeniable warmth, which was certainly present in spirit if not in meteorological terms!

May Day Marriage

Venue – Riverhill Himalayan Gardens
Photography – Kat Forsyth Photography
Bridal Gowns -Wilden Bride
Bridesmaid dresses – Little Bevan
Hair & Make-Up – Flair Beauty
Flowers – The Vintage Floral Design Company

How striking are those sunflowers!

My absolute favourite thing about this shoot (other than the perfection that is the models skin!) is how considered it is. Look back at the last image and you will notice that the brides bouquet is made up of all the wonderful flowers used in the individual posys of the flower girls. Absolutely gorgeous.

So tell me you lovely lot, how many maids are you having? Will they be all the colours of the rainbow?

And how do you feel about having different posies for each of your maids? I thoroughly love the idea. There’s something about matching a flower to a personality that makes me smile.

It is Friday afternoon….go on, indulge me.

I’m off to work out what flower I am…maybe today I’m a bit of a pansy – I always like how they seem to have a smiley face. (Ok so maybe now I’ve gone mad.)

Lots of flowery hippy vibing love

Becky
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RMW Rates – By Alex

By Alex

We are really pleased to welcome By Alex to The Love Lust List. The Rock My Wedding directory with a difference.

Rock My Wedding hand select and verify each of our suppliers, we know for a fact that every member of our directory has the ability to make your wedding day rock!

You can find By Alex in our South East Decor/Hire category.

Check By Alex out and remember if you are looking for vendors and suppliers with the RMW seal of approval, the Love Lust List is only one click away via the ‘Find A Supplier’ tab in the header section.

  • By Alex

    www.by-alex.co.uk
    t: 07879 620864
    e: alex@by-alex.co.uk

    About Us

    By Alex is a collection of all things pretty for your wedding and your home. Handcrafted fabric bridal bouquets, bridesmaid posies, grooms buttonholes, bunting and personalised gifts. After getting married in 2012 (as featured on RMW) I designed and handcrafted all my wedding details. Your wedding day is one of the most special, personal occasions in your life and By Alex is here to help create the pretty, personalised details that can be cherished for years to come as a keepsake of your special day.

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Ask The Experts – Abigail Warner.

Abigail Warner Stationery

If you read our vlogging post earlier this week then you’ll already know that I’m an interior infatuated, art loving, frustrated florist. You’ll also be aware that I’m obsessed with all things paper. Be it a gorgeous print, exquisite handwritten type or the sweetest suite of personalised stationery you can guarantee that I’ll be hooked or it will be pinned to within an inch of its life on my Pinterest boards. (Incidentally you can follow me here if you’re interested in seeing what’s caught my eye this week.)

Ever since I first entered the wedding world (some time ago now folks) I’ve adored, lusted after and admired in equal parts the work of Abigail Warner.

To say she’s a perfect paper genius would be an understatement.

Abbey is the woman (actual guru!) behind the luxury paper goods company Abigail Warner creating beautiful designs for weddings, businesses and paper obssessed folk such as myself.

From designing and selling greetings cards in illustrious boutiques such as Selfridges and Paperchase the world over, to her latest venture – an interiors project with fashion and textile designer, Pearl Lowe – Abbey continues to push the boundaries of the stationery world.

And so today lovelies, we have a real treat for you; we’ve managed to persuade the lovely Abbey to down tools for a few wee hours to answer all of your stationery conundrums and perhaps suggest some solutions to your paper related woes.

Perhaps you’re having difficulty with a certain turn of phrase within your invites or you need some guidance about how to start the process of commissioning a bespoke stationery suite. Are you in a paper pickle over your table plan? Why not let this superwoman work her magic and help you on your way.

But wait. That’s not all. You see Abbey has recently launched her brand new website and some glorious new designs to boot. And folks, they are absolutely exquisite.

Don’t believe me…why not check them out for yourself.

Take it away Ms Warner.

Abigail Warner Wedding Stationery

Abbey: Hello…

I’ll be totally honest with you. As I am typing this, I have a glass of wine in one hand, phone in the other, I’m occasionally scribbling notes, checking emails and wondering if I sent the right documents to print – all whilst having an ear out for the dog wanting to be let out for pee, and planning tomorrow’s outfit in my head but that’s life for us hardworking girls, right? Right! So take a seat and pour yourself some wine {or tea/ coffee/ diet coke depending on what time of the day you are joining me}.

And Hello! I am Abigail Warner or Abbey {unless you are reading this Mum} I have a little design studio in Derby {that’s near Nottingham} but I also spend a lot of time in the smoke as that’s where most of my lovely customers seem to hail from, and as I love shopping, eating out and train travel {good job really} – I don’t mind one little bit.

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About the Business

I design luxury paper goods for weddings, businesses and people who just love design, paper and illustration. I also design and sell greetings cards for gorgeous boutiques and shops with my designs being stocked in London’s Selfridges and Paperchase as well as in beautiful boutiques in and across the UK, Europe and Australia.

I absolutely love to combine great design with traditional print-making techniques and most of my wedding commissions involve a combination of processes such as letterpress {creating a design that is pressed into the paper}, foiling {using a hot transfer process to create a gorgeous finish} or thermography {using heat to create a raised design}. I love working with brides so that I can help celebrate great love stories, and that is exactly what I do. Each one of my designs are bespoke and, just like my couples, a one off.

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I limit the number of clients I work with when it comes to wedding design which helps keep my brand exclusive. I’m neither a trendsetter nor do I follow trends, I just love the creative process and I seem to attract clients that like what I like, which is always nice, that old law of attraction at work.

I also find that because I am not known just as a wedding stationery designer I get some really interesting projects that cross weddings, designs, fashion, beauty and interiors, which also helps keep designs fresh.

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I’ve been lucky to be involved in lots of exciting creative projects, from designing retail space at Harrods {in the good ol’ days – until last summer – when Harrods had their own gorgeous stationery department before they sold out to WHSmith – I sold their most expensive card. If bling was your thing I had your back}.

More recently I’ve been involved in an exciting interiors project with fashion and textile designer, Pearl Lowe and her book ‘Vintage Craft’ for Harper Collins (launching May 2013) which saw me creating gorgeous craft projects and working on the design and illustrations; I am also Editor at Large of Pearl Lowe’s Vintage Home.

My client list includes lots of gorgeous folk including some lovely celebrities and also royalty {ooh I say, the girl from Derby done good hey?}.

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My Inspirations

My designs are greatly inspired by fashion and interiors, I spend far too much time pondering love, life and the universe at the V&A, Harvey Nichols and Liberty, and my ultimate brand inspirations are Orla Kiely and Kate Spade.

I adore to travel and my favourite place in the whole wide world {except for my freshly made bed} is the Amalfi coast in Italy and {predictably} Paris. In terms of business I find incredibly successful business women who appear to have life ‘sorted’ beyond inspirational. These include Natalie Massenet who founded Net-A-Porter, India Knight (journalist) and Sophie Dahl (model turned cooking guru) and since attending the Vogue Festival at the weekend – Tamara Mellon, founder of Jimmy Choo {sold last year for over 500,000,000 people, thats A-LOT-OF-SHOES}.

Abigail Warner Pink Striped Stripy Vintage Wedding Invite RSVP Stationery Suite

I keep myself motivated by booking myself on workshops and classes to broaden my skills in design {and non design subjects – unless cakes counts as design?} I also spend lots of time hanging out with very inspirational people in the oh-so-many collaborations that I involve myself and the business in and I also like to have personal projects.

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I’m inspired daily; I have a gorgeous house, rather wonderful boyfriend {I’m not being smug – believe me I kissed my fair share of frogs} lovely naughty dog and I get so much support and love from my gorgeous friends and my rather special mum, who handles everything life throws at her with a knowing nod, a wink and chink of a {large} wine glass.

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About Me

I am a keen fashion and textile lover, total typography, print-and-paper-making-geek. I am a Diet Coke-hooked, Mojito {and chavtastic Rosé wine spritzer} drinking, Mulberry loving {I have a 1978 from the Saul collection that I would save first in a fire} and Vogue-obsessed workaholic with a naughty sense of humour, the mouth of a sailor and and an eye for style always with my trademark perfectly-painted-nails and trademark never-perfect-blonde-bed-head and I always have a splash of leopard print about my person.

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I like to take pictures of my feet, food, flowers and daily antics.

I tell it how it is, not always what you want to hear and I wear my heart on my sleeve.

I love to smile, dance, drink cocktails and eat gorgeous food and although I have a prized handbag collection I believe it is the simple things in life that really make you happy.

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There are three little pieces of advice that I live by…”kill them with kindness” ”be the best that you can be at what you do” and “pay as much as you can afford.” hardly original – but seem to work for me.

Abigail Warner Metallic Cream Bespoke Wedding Invite Stationery

So then lovelies have you got any questions for the beautiful Abbey?

Just use the comments box below to ping your queries, stationery trials and tribulations or general paper trivia Abbey’s way and she’ll be more than happy to answer them for you.

All my love Lolly xxx

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What Rebecca Did… Bits, Bobs & More Craft.

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Afternoon lovelies! :)

Right, before I go any further, can I just say a humongous ‘congratulations’ to Real Brides Hannah & Vix who are now married ladies!!!!!!! Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! :-D 
Hope you girlies had the best days EVER! And we cannot wait to see all the pictures!
I cannot believe the first 2 girlies have had their wedding already, time is just flying by!

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I am super, super excited to finally be able to share with you all our pretty darn awesome invites! These beauties were designed by our very own RMW Real Bride Hannah
Like many brides, my original plan was to try & design the invites myself. However, it soon became apparent that I was seriously lacking in design skills! Nothing I could come up with looked anywhere near as nice as I wanted it to. It just looked like a school project, rather than the amazing invites that would get all our guests excited about our big day! So in stepped Hannah, and after sending her a 3 page PDF file of our ‘ideas’ (1 of which was JUST fonts!!!) she created these beautiful invites for us……..

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Aren’t they just gorgeous?! They are everything we wanted them to be; a little bit different, a little bit art deco and ticket like! They are 100 times better than anything I could have hashed together and just fit the whole design of our wedding perfectly! Plus it has been amazing getting all the lovely compliments from our family and friends; apparently they love them almost as much as us! :-D Getting Hannah to design these beauties might possibly be the best decision of our wedding so far!

Oh and good news for you lovely lot, Hannah has started up her own stationery business – Love Doodle!

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I am also pretty excited to be able to show you some actual button holes and the flower girl’s wand designed by yours truly!!!

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Yup, I am actually starting to get somewhere with my fabric flowers…..this is mainly because of the help of a few very kind friends & family members who have spent their lunchtimes and weekends making hundreds of the things! I’ve still got a fair few to make, but I can safely say that if it wasn’t for my lovely friends I would be nowhere near to making anything! They really have been lifesavers & I owe them all vast quantities of sparkly wine to say thank you!


Here is a short description of how we put together the button holes….

  1. We took a couple of feathers attached to wire (I just wrapped floral wire around the stems of the feather a few times to keep secure), held in the position we wanted we then twisted the wire together.
  2. Next we took a scrabble tile (which I had pre-attached to some wire), positioned alongside the feathers and then wrapped the wire around the wire of the feathers.
  3. Then we selected a fabric flower (again pre-attached to some wire), held that in the desired position and then twisted the wire around the rest of the wire.
  4. This made the basis of our buttonhole. Now all we needed to do was fold the wire a couple of times to determine the length of the stem we wanted, then cut off any excess.
  5. We then wrapped the wire with floral tape to keep it all together.
  6. Lastly we covered the stem with some satin ribbon (using a glue gun to keep the ribbon in place).

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What do you think?

I think they look pretty fabulous (big headed, moi?!)! To have all the male buttonholes done is such a huge relief! At one point it looked like I would never get there, but seeing these come together has shown me that with a little help from your friends anything is possible :)

To make the flower girl’s wand I used the same technique as above but added more flowers & feathers and kept the stems longer to give it more of a wand look. I have finished it off with tassels made from ribbons, perfect for a little princess!
Now I just need to get the bouquets together!! Eeek!! Are any of you making your own bouquet? If so, how are you putting it together? All tips very, very much welcome (I’ll let you know how I get on next time) :)

But that’s not all the DIY-ing I’ve been doing! I’ve also been getting my glitter on with some sparkly candle-holders. And they were pretty darn simple to achieve…

Just take some washed glass jars and mark off the areas you want glittered with masking tape. Coat the area you want glittered with a mix of PVA glue & water. Now just cover the glued area with glitter, leave to dry, shake off the excess and remove the tape et voila, you have a glittered jar!

These will hold candles and will be used on all the outside tables. Just imagine them twinkling away as the sun sets :-D

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Pretty Dresses For Pretty Girls

Another big thing I have almost got ticked off the never-ending to-do list is the bridesmaid dresses. I love my girlies dearly and one thing I have been adamant about from the start is that I wanted them to look and feel their best. My only request was that they were in shades of either pink or grey to make sure they would go with all the fabric flowers and the invites. In the end the girls decided on floor length dresses and have all chosen dresses in various shades of pink, and here are the five dresses…..

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I have to admit I thought finding the bridesmaid dresses would be a lot easier than it was. One big sticking point for us being the lack of bridesmaid dresses with proper straps. I’m not talking about little spaghetti straps, I am talking about dresses where the wearer can actually wear a bra with them! It seems that the moment a designer looks to design a floor length gown they forget that not everyone enjoys wearing a dress without the support of a bra. Yes there are a few, but we are talking about a small handful and an even smaller amount of them were even close to the budget! Another issue we had was that I was so flexible about the style and was so desperate to find the girls their perfect dress, I ended up bombarding them with a ridiculous number of dresses for them to choose from. But luckily for me the girls managed to cope with my barrage of messages and pictures and, fingers crossed, we can now tick this task off the list

Have any of you found similar issues when searching for bridesmaid dresses? Were you overwhelmed by all the different choices (well, for those not wanting straps! ;-) ), or did you have a much clearer idea of how you wanted your best girls to look?

While on the subject of the bridal party, I don’t think I have shared with you the outfit for my oh-so-adorable flower girl! She is going to look abso-flipping-lutely amazing :)

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So What’s Next?

So I am slowly but surely getting quite a few things ticked off the never ending to-do list; my hair trial – done(LOVED it!), had a chat with the lady doing church flowers (Lolly, I’m having a wreath on the church door, eeeeeee!!!), wedding rings are ordered (& almost ready to pick up), pork pies ordered for the pork pie layer of our cheese ‘cake’, cake topper purchased and Dave & his boys have their suits (and yes, they look flipping dapper!). But there is still plenty to be getting on with! Seriously, my whiteboard is covered in tasks…

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Picture Credits: Style Me Pretty | 100LayerCake (invitations) | 100LayerCake (drink stirrers) | Rock My Wedding | dsmeebee | etsy

And just before I go, I’d love to say a big thanks to Dave’s mum for doing a fab job reading our Banns in church the other weekend! Yup, Dave’s mum is actually a Lay Preacher at the church we will be getting married in, so the other week when the vicar was not around she stepped up to the plate. It was a special moment for Dave & I :)

Well that’s all from me for now, back to the crafting I go!

Big crafty love,

Rebecca xxx

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RMW Rates – The Flower Mill

The Flower Mill

We are really pleased to welcome The Flower Mill to The Love Lust List. The Rock My Wedding directory with a difference.

Rock My Wedding hand select and verify each of our suppliers, we know for a fact that every member of our directory has the ability to make your wedding day rock!

You can find The Flower Mill in our Eastern Florists category.

Check The Flower Mill out and remember if you are looking for vendors and suppliers with the RMW seal of approval, the Love Lust List is only one click away via the ‘Find A Supplier’ tab in the header section.

  • The Flower Mill

    www.theflowermillessex.co.uk
    t: 07854 738895
    e: info@theflowermillessex.co.uk

    About Us

    The Flower Mill is a floral design company based in Essex. We specialise in wedding flowers and offer a exclusive professional floral wedding service to couples. Choosing the right flowers for your wedding day is important, whether it’s a few choice blooms or an abundance of colour, The Flower Mill will work closely with you to design beautiful flowers to create the look you want to achieve to complement your special day. We are passionate about flowers and love everything floral from vintage style blooms to minimally tied Calla Lilies.

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