I am so waving the welsh red dragon flag this week – this time for Olivia and Maurice’s sophisticated big day in Pembrokeshire.
To start with Olivia is certainly one hell-of-a stylish bride, from her delicious Bruce Oldfield gown to her sprig of ivy adored hair (love that). And as with every W-day we feature captured by Love Lust List members Charis and Owen at O & C Photography, the couple portraits are (said in best welsh accent) LUSH.
And I’ve got to say, this is one of the cutest flower girls I’ve ever seen.
Oh and the image where Maurice is whispering to Olivia as her father “gives her away” ? You just know he’s saying something to the tune of “You look beautiful….”
Le Sigh.
Happy Thursday Lovelies….. Enjoy the pretty!

A Timeless Choice
My dress was an off the shoulder, ivory, silk chiffon gown by Bruce Oldfield. It had a wrap around Grecian style front with transparent back detail, full skirt and 12ft train. It was not what I had originally planned which was lace with a tight straight skirt!
I had always wanted something classic, elegant, timeless, but different from all the bustier everyone else has. I tried on 4 more Bruce Oldfields after, but that was the one!

A Touch Of Ivy
I always wear my hair down & had planned to but the back detail in my dress required a half up, half down, to not detract from the back. It was in ringlets, with ivy & daisies to decorate. Originally I wanted it to look kind of Thespian, Pre Raphaelite, and a bit Mid-Summer Nights Dream…. I like antique classic things.
For make-up I went for a natural look, deep pinks that I know suit my complexion. I resisted the fake tan, to go for a more modern natural skin glow!

A South African Influence
Our colour scheme was Emerald Green & Yellow, as per the South African Flag. My maids wore Emerald green chiffon strapless gowns from Sexy Her, a store in Croydon. I wanted the girls to feel comfortable, feminine &and like themselves so they all had their hair & make up how they wished as I didn’t want them to feel they lost their own identity.
My little niece Jess wore a white dress from John Lewis. We got a sash that matches the girls dresses and my clever mother fixed it to her dress.

Simple And Classic
The bridesmaids and I all had roses- simple & classic, cream for the bride & pale yellow for the bridesmaids. The ushers had yellow roses and ivy button holes. At the church and the reception we had seasonal and some wild countryside yellow flowers with lots of greenery & ivy. I wanted a very British countryside style wedding with the Saffa green & yellow theme.
In the marquee we had ivy & fairy lights wound up the poles, it was stunning….

Strict Instructions
The grooms party wore black suits, white shirt, green tie and yellow button hole. Maurice wore a slim fitted grey/ blue suit. I also gave strict instructions to his mother to made sure he exfoliated & moisturised first!!

Young, Fun And Informal
My Mum found our photographers Charis and Owen, they are young, very friendly, fun and with a great non formal, artistic, experimental take on wedding photography.
As a young married couple themselves they were perfect for this special occasion.

All Abut The Music
We had Hymns during the ceremony that included a very British Jerusalem and the South African national anthem Nkosi Sekaleli. An old school friend who is first violin for the Welsh national opera played Lark Arising during the signing of the register.
We walked out of the church to The Beatles “All you need is love” played on the Organ and our first dance was the Dave Matthews Band “You & me”.
We had a lovely 4 piece jazz band for the beginning of the evening. That went down a treat. Later in the evening we had a fab disco and everyone was up dancing!

The Gift Of Song
Our cake was made by my God Mother, a 3 tiered gloriously moist carrot cake. With beautiful big handmade iced flowers. We love carrot cake, not particularly into fruit cake and liked the idea of having something different.
Instead of favours we gave each of our friends a family a gift of a song- that were either was a favourite of theirs, reminded us of them or one we had enjoyed with them in the past.
In Maurice’s case this may have been enjoying jamming with them, in mine getting down on the dance floor(!) If guests wished their song to be played they took it up to the DJ.

Advice from The Bride
Be different, individual, be true to yourself. Do whatever you want to, for yourself, its your day. Do nice little things, gifts or speeches for the important friends & family who are important. Get all the family involved- we did, it’s a family affair…..

Brides Dress – Bruce Oldfield
Reception venue – Upton Castle, Kilgetty, Pembrokeshire
Photography – O & C Photography
I am definitely having an ivy moment. And a chiffon moment. And a ooooh isn’t it all lush moment.
Anyone else having a yellow and green “fresh” theme? anyone else having a big welsh bash?
Yes?
There’s Lovely.
Big Proud To Have From-The-Valleys Genes Love
Charlotte xxx



























































