Doughnut Tower at Botley Hill Barn Wedding

The minute we saw Botley Hill Barn's gorgeous industrial window on Instagram that looks out onto the Surrey Hills, we knew it was the venue for us. A friend had Kirsty as their wedding photographer and recommended her, we looked at her work on Rock My Wedding and saw her energy and colours through her pictures and knew Kirsty was perfect.

Enjoy every moment! Pouring over spreadsheets and juggling planning meetings with suppliers might feel like a chore in the run-up, but once your day has been and gone you'll look back at all those little tasks fondly and wish you could do it again. The nerves will go - I felt so nervous the morning of the wedding but as soon as I walked down the aisle, the nerves went and the whole day was a joy.