Ramster Hall wedding with bride and bridesmaids in dark red dresses

Classic Ramster Hall Wedding

Photography by Matt Penberthy Photography

Jess & Toby were attending 10 other weddings the year they were to have their Ramster Hall wedding! We want to know how this couple manage their schedules because we are in awe of their time management skills. Naturally, Jess & Toby wanted to make sure their wedding was personal to them to stand out from all the other weddings! We’re not biased or anything, but if it was a competition we think Jess & Toby would win! The couple had personal readings, music, a brownie wedding cake tower and so much more you’ll have to scroll to see! Recommended Supplier, Matt Penberthy Photography, captured the whole day! There’s no wonder that Jess is the epitome of the radiant bride with her hair and makeup done by Recommended Supplier, Catherine Bailey. The couple chose Recommended Supplier, Shropshire Petals, for their confetti too! Jess also got her shoes from Recommended Supplier, Rainbow Club!


Ramster Hall wedding with autumn wedding theme including burgundy bridesmaid dresses

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We asked our friends and family to read poems and prayers and included some of our favourite songs to make our ceremony more personal. We had an excellent rendition of I Want To Dance With Somebody by Whitney Houston, courtesy of our sublime singing harpist! Of course, the drunken dancefloor singalong to Mr Brightside by The Killers was another. Is any British wedding complete without it?

Jess & Toby

Floral wedding stationery invitation with jug of flowers
Groom and groomsmen in dark there piece suits with light grey waistcoat and pink ties with a red tie for the groom
A traditional church wedding ceremony for the bride and groom in Surrey
Groom and groomsmen at the wedding in morning suits
Bride in lace cap sleeve wedding dress with diamante hairpiece walking down the aisle
Personalised message inside the bridesmaid's clutch bag for the wedding as a gift
The groom places the wedding band on the bride's finger as part of their church ceremony
Red and pink wedding flower arch decoration on the entrance to the church
Bride with half up half down waved wedding hair with delicate diamond tiara
Groom in dark suit with light grey waistcoat and red tie with floral buttonhole socialising with guests
Bride with half up half down princess wedding hair style in satin bridal pyjamas
The bride and groom stand together to sing the wedding hymn at their ceremony
The bride and groom walk back down the aisle at their Surrey church wedding
The groom and best man smile together as they nervously wait for the bride
Bride in lace wedding dress for traditional wedding
The church wedding in Surrey for traditional couple
The bride and groom exit from their ceremony to pink confetti from Shropshire Petals
The bride and groom smile at each other as they stand at the altar

Ramster Hall Wedding

Ramster Hall wedding venue is local to Jess & Toby and was their first choice because of its homely and cosy feel, which was perfect for an autumn wedding! Jess & Toby found all their suppliers from the venue's recommendations and found comfort in the fact that all these suppliers have worked in this wedding venue before. The couple could just enjoy their day and have complete trust in their supplier's talent! Ramster Hall has classic period features and plenty of twinkling fairy lights to set the tone for that autumnal aesthetic. The style of the wedding day made use of a lot of traditional British styling with some modern twists. Matt Penberthy Photography was a great choice for the couple because they fell in love with his artistic yet timeless style!

Church Wedding Ceremony

Jess & Toby's favourite part of their Ramster Hall wedding has to be the church service! When they finally tied the knot (after Covid had forced the couple to postpone for a year) they wanted to make their traditional ceremony feel more personal and modern. Friends and family members read poems and prayers, and all the wedding music included Jess & Toby's favourite songs! Jess & Toby attended 10 other weddings in the same year they married, so they wanted to make theirs all about them! Another highlight is the wedding newspaper! Jess is an editor so this was perfect! They had a chocoholic's dream wedding cake, which was actually a tower of different flavoured brownies including peanut butter and Ferrero Rocher! We'll take a plate of peanut butter brownies, please!

Personalised wooden cake toppers modelled after the bride and groom
A brownie wedding cake tower with brownies of different flavours
Traditional Ramster Hall wedding in Surrey decorated for autumn wedding with fairy lights and tall floral centrepieces
Groom and groomsmen pose together for the traditional Ramster Hall wedding
Navy and cream vintage wedding car for the bride and groom at classic wedding
Burgundy wedding table name sign with polaroid photos
Personalised wedding newspaper for the wedding day
Ramster Hall country house wedding venue in Surrey with dark red wedding flowers and table decorations
Bride in traditional lace gown with groom in a three piece morning suit at their wedding
The bride and groom pose together underneath the pink and dark red wedding flower arch
Tall candelabra wedding table centrepiece with autumnal wedding flowers
Bridal party wearing dark red bridesmaid dresses standing with the bride holding autumnal wedding bouquets
Groom and groomsmen posing together holding their suit jackets for posed photo
Fun wedding Photo Booth with funny props for wedding photos and keepsakes
The bride and groom have a traditional sparkler send off from their Ramster Hall wedding
Autumnal theme wedding in October with the groom embracing the bride from behind in the woods at the venue
The wedding guests wave napkins in greeting to the bride and groom at the wedding reception
The bride wears a lace cap sleeve wedding dress for traditional Surrey wedding
Wedding party for October Ramster Hall wedding with the groom and groomsmen in morning suits and the bridesmaids in burgundy dresses
Ramster Hall country house wedding with the bride and groom posing for their couple portraits
Groomsmen drinking champagne in celebration of the wedding
Burgundy wedding table name sign based on different years with polaroid pictures of the couple
Gypsophila and rose wedding bouquets held by the bridal party in dark red bridesmaid dresses
Bride in lace gown holding hands with the groom in a morning suit for Ramster Hall wedding

Chocolate lover? Then a brownie wedding cake tower is the way to go!

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Firstly, set up a separate wedding email address to keep all our 'wedmin' in one place. Creating a 'to do' timetable to break down the overwhelming bigger picture into bitesize tasks also helped us feel more in control and kept things moving. Otherwise, go with your gut when making decisions, you'll know when something feels right. This will mean your personalities will shine through in everything from the decorations to the cake. On the day, remember to take a breather just the two of you, even if only for five minutes. Soak it all in; it goes far too quickly!

Jess & Toby


Jess & Toby finished their Ramster Hall wedding in true style to Mr Brightside by The Killers. If you want some more inspiration, here are 99 more last dance songs! Are you having an autumn wedding? To get the autumn vibes, wedding decor is key! There are over 40 table centrepieces ideas to help you get started.


Venue: Ramster Hall |
Singer: Cerian Holland |
Florist: Cherfold Flowers |
Food: Jacaranda |
Cake: Bad Brownie |
Hair & Makeup: Catherine Bailey |
Wedding Dress & Bridal Boutique: The Farnham Boutique |
Bridesmaid Dresses: Phase Eight |
Tiara : Ivory & Co |
Suits: Moss Bros |
Ties: John Henric |
Shoes: Rainbow Club |
Shoe Clips: Freya Rose |
Stationery: Blackdown Press |
Confetti: Shropshire Petals |
Photo Booth: Camera Cabtastic
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