Maximalist At Home Weekend Wedding

The highlight of the day was leaving the ceremony to Brass Funkeys. We followed our 12-piece brass band, snaking our way up to the top tier of land where drinks were to be served. Looking backwards across the beautiful beach of St Brelade, with all our favourite people in the world dancing behind us, about to consume spicy cucumber margaritas out of olive tins.

Do you! Don't include aspects of the day because 'you are meant to'. You don't have to have a cake, you don't have to have a ceremony, you don't have to have a first dance. Also, ask for help. If you're like me and organised the MOST complex three-day wedding, you will need support. The wedding party and family are wonderful, but people love helping deliver your big day, so don't be scared to cast the net wider.