Laid back and Loved up


Beautiful bride Brigitte is the polar opposite of a bridezilla. She and Sam made all of their wedding decisions together, applying their laid-back approach to life to their wedding day. The relaxed, family feel shines through in the images, as does their ‘togetherness.’ These two really, really love each other.

The ‘things we like’ theme is great as it creates weddings that are so natural, authentic and fun. Although it probably helps when the couple doing the ‘throwing things together’ are so stylish. Brigitte’s veil is stunning and works perfectly with her elegant and simple gown. And Sam looks every inch the dapper British Gent.

The venue also holds childhood memories for them both – I love the possibility that their lives crossed as children – so romantic. And the flowers make me very happy indeed – so vibrant and perfect for an Easter wedding.


Childhood Memories

Brigitte The Bride: The ceremony and reception was held in a beautiful 17th century barn at Blake Hall, Bobbingworth near Epping. We chose this venue as we both separately have great memories of this place – as children we would go here for the craft fayre.


To our luck they had the Easter Saturday available and that was it, we booked the venue. The venue has a really family feel, we’re not sure if it’s the history we have with the place or the great team they have there. Austin and Rachel were really great.

Naturally Beautiful

I did my own hair and makeup as we wanted a relaxed feel, whimsical if you like. For my foundation I used Dior Nude BB Cream (colour one) – I absolutely love this stuff.

My perfume was Diptyque Eau Rose and my nail colour was by Rococo and called ‘Whisper of Envy.’ I wanted my hair fairly natural, with a few waves and loosely pinned up with some flowers put in as well.


Subtle Elegance

I wanted a subtle but elegant dress that was not fussy so that I could accessorise. I really wanted a lace veil so didn’t want a lace dress. After going to bridal shops and thinking this just isn’t me, I opted for a J-Crew dress, a flowing, subtle and flattering gown(the Sofia dress). I’d seen this dress a long time ago and just kept thinking about it.


Sam’s suit was by The Kooples – a three-piece British check suit. He wore a burgundy Ben Sherman tie and his great great Grandfather’s pocket watch and chain.

All About The Accessories

I wore Rachel Simpson Anya peep toes, then Grecian style sandals from Oasis. I wore a gold bee necklace that my friend Jen bought me and my husband’s Grandma lent me a beautiful string of Pearls. These were Sam’s Great Great Grandma’s!


I changed my necklace in the evening, through fear of breaking the antique heirloom pearls. I opted for a mink colour petal necklace from BHLDN.

The veil was a talking point. I finally got my all lace veil. And I loved it. The rings came from Brighton, a shop called Finch Jewellers on Meeting House Lane. They were bought from a funny lady who was full of beans, we loved her.


Touches Of Burgundy

We had one bridesmaid, my sister Amy, her two boys Leo and Lucas as page boys and one Groomsman – Andy. My sister wore the Aliana Lace dress by Ted Baker; she picked it herself. She wore burgundy shoes to go with the pageboys burgundy suits, which they picked. Andy wore the York Jacket and York Trousers by Ted Baker and a Ben Sherman waistcoat with a burgundy Ben Sherman Tie.


We didn’t have a particular colour scheme in mind it just sort of grew from the boy’s suits and having little touches of the burgundy here and there really worked.

Things We Like

We wanted a colourful fun day but tried not to stick to any particular theme, we just picked things up along the way that we liked.
At the bar there were mini cocktail umbrellas, cocktail stick flamingos and loads of colourful paper straws. Around the barn we had bunting, lots of candle sticks and tea lights. We also found a great company to hire giant light up letters, these were amazing and a real talking point. There was an area with Moroccan cushions, a great place for the kids to relax after dancing.

As it was Easter we found some vintage inspired papier-mâché eggs for the children, filled them with chocolate mini eggs and little retro chicks we also hid eggs all around the barn for the children to find, they loved it!


Vibrant Flowers

Our florist was fabulous, very laid back and knew exactly what we wanted. We asked for colourful, vibrant flowers with seasonal wild and garden flowers incorporated but nothing too formal. They arranged the flowers in pressed glasses on a mirrored base with tea lights. The colours were so vibrant; I honestly have never seen flowers that bright in colour!

My bouquet was similar to the tables with wild flowers including bluebells and peonies, my bridesmaid had a smaller version. The page boys had wee little button holes, one little bud with a tiny sprig of wax flower. The Groom and Groomsman had colourful buttonholes which had craspedia as well as other bright flowers.


The aisle had potted Primulas that we gave to some of our guests; they looked so adorable and were just right for the barn. The barn didn’t need much decorating, all it really needed was the flowers and Achillea really did deliver.


A lump In Our Throats

The ceremony was very small and personal. I walked down to Israel Kamakawiwo’ole Somewhere/What a wonderful world. As the song started my dad whispered to me ‘ooh that’s your mother in tears.’ We waited a little until we walked down the aisle. And yes, my mother was in tears. The start of the song is so beautiful I think we all had a lump in our throats.

When the vows were over we walked down the aisle together and as everyone looked back Sam held me and we kissed, this was a really lovely moment and we could hear the awwws.


I Will Wait

Our first dance was amazing! Mumford and Sons – ‘I will wait’. It started off with Sam and I dancing then we called people up to join in, we all danced then some of our friends and family made a circle by holding hands and all the sudden we were in the middle, as we danced they span round us, it was a great moment that we could not have replicated.


At the end of the evening we had Green Day – Good Riddance (Time of your Life) and everyone held hands in a circle around us again. During the last chorus Sam picked me up, he timed it perfectly, again my mum was crying! Sam’s Dad David then walked into the circle and welcomed me to the clan!

Gaz from Discowed was our DJ, they made it into a great night out. Before the wedding Paddy even put us on the guest list of a few club nights they were doing in London, they didn’t treat us like customers; more like mates.


Let Your Hair Down

On our guest book table we had a big jar of chocolate eggs, champagne truffle hearts and wee little bags with a packet of lavender seeds and a chocolate coin as favours.

We also had a Polaroid camera with peel off sticky back prints so people could stick them in the guest book, this went really well and we had some VERY interesting photos from it.


On each table there was a small glass with chocolate eggs. For the evening we had a buffet with Sam’s favourite – beef and horseradish rolls. We paid for the bar which made a big difference as people really let their hair down. On our table we toasted with Perrier-Jouët Belle Epoque Rosé Vintage Champagne, which was amazing and a fabulous bottle!


The cake was made by my cousin Keeley (she appeared on Master Chef) it was bright, colourful and full of flowers, it looked stunning. We left it up to her to design and she got it spot on. It was a mix of flavours and everybody enjoyed it.


Minty Fresh

The stationery was important, it had to be personal. We don’t know where the idea came from but thought flags in lemonade bottles would look good. We painted card a mint green colour and wrote on them with a gold pen. The name tags were painted mint green manila tags with bakers twine. The menus had blossom from Rifle Paper co. We bought some cards from there and DIY’d our menus. I made the table plan, bought an old frame and used a chalk pen.


Disorganised & Laid Back

We wanted our wedding to be colourful, fun, happy and as disorganised and laid back as we are. We tried not to have a theme as we felt that it puts added pressure on people to get it just right. We wanted to just go with the flow and for it to be all about close friends and family.


Team Work

We tried to do everything together, I’ve heard of brides giving their grooms specific tasks to do like music or entertainment and they don’t get a look in for anything else.To us we didn’t think that was fair, it should be a great experience for the both of you, enjoy looking up things together and deciding on what you want, don’t task each other to do separate things, work together, that’s why you’re getting married because you do work well together!


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Venue – Blake Hall
Brides Dress – J-Crew
Shoes – Rachel Simpson Oasis
Veil – Delphine Manivet
Necklace – BHLDN
Grooms Outfit – The Kooples, Ben Sherman
Bridesmaid and Groomsman – Ted Baker
Décor – Pipii, Vowed And Amazed
Stationery – Rifle Paper Co.
Florist – Achillea
DJ – Disco Wed
Cake – Cakes by Keeley Louise
Photography – Peachey Photography

A gorgeous set of photo’s from Katherine at Peachey Photography, who informed me that this wedding was shot entirely on film, rather than digital.

“…I’ve actually moved from shooting in digital to film early this year. It’s so much nicer – the colours and tones are lovely, much more flattering and it all feels much more special.”

The gold and mint green combination for the table names looks amazing and exposed beams bathed in golden light at Blake Hall makes for such an atmospheric reception venue too!

Not bad for such dis-organised and laid back people hey??

Lots of love,
Fern x

Author: Fern Godfrey
Fern spends most of her time dreaming about weddings and trying to convince her long-suffering boyfriend to propose. Lucky enough to live in sunny Cornwall, if you need her – you’ll find her at beach.

13 thoughts on “Laid back and Loved up

  1. Oooooo what a pretty wedding 🙂
    And a STUNNING wedding dress!

    The pictures are just gorgeous! You can feel the LOVE in them all – and just look at the way Briggite & Sam are constantly embracing…..gorgeous! (I’m a sucker for a great big hug!) 🙂

    Huge congrats guys on what looks like a wonderful day 🙂

  2. Beautiful. What a stunning dress and veil the bride wore! Love the jewel colours of the flowers, mini eggs and THAT CAKE! Exquisite. x

  3. I love a bearded groom! Sam looks immense in his chequered suit. Also loving the white cut out bunting, the cake and that table plan! Gorgeous!

  4. I totally agree with Fern, couples should be able to plan their weddings together… congratulations! everything looks just wonderful and you guys make the most lovable couple ever. Good choice on the venue and the flowers, I really liked the way you made the cake match with the décor without even trying to! I will definitely encourage the Asian brides that plan weddings with us to go for a more laid back and simple weddings like this one.

  5. Gorgeous photos! I live right near Achilea and walk by everyday looking at all the beautiful arrangements they do. I would have loved to use them for my wedding, but Australia is a little too far to deliver to!

  6. What a nice surprise to find us on the blog! Sam & Brigitte are such a cool couple, we really enjoyed getting to know them and it helped Gaz to enjoy playing for them even more! Blake Hall is a lovely venue, and these pictures really do it justice. Great post all round!

    Sam Brigitte – you’re always welcome on the guest list! 😎



  7. Brigitte, I love the simplicity of your dress…I’m considering a J Crew gown…I’m guessing that buying your gown online worked ok postage wise and was the size pretty representative? Any guidance appreciated.

    Beautiful wedding, Emma x

  8. Thank you for all of your lovely comments and thank you Fern for a great feature. Peachey was the perfect photographer for our wedding, we love her.

    @Emma, J-crew were amazing, best if you email them, they are so helpful and friendly, it was real customer service, they helped with the sizing. I got free international postage, they usually have offers on. But had to pay the usual Import tax. The size was pretty much spot on, maybe could be a tinnie tiny bit smaller. I’m a size 6 Petit in dress over here so I ordered a size 0 Petit from J-crew. The dress felt fab on, very flowing and comfortable and the colour was what you would expect from an Ivory. hope this helps.

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